Friends in Council — First SeriesHelps, Arthur, Sir
Philosophy
Friends in Council — First Series
Helps, Arthur, Sir
Conduct of life
_Milverton_. Never mind the obscure dramatist. But, Ellesmere, you
really are unreasonable, if you suppose that, in the limits of a short
essay, you can accurately distinguish all you write between the use and
the abuse of a thing. The question is, will people misunderstand
you—not, is the language such as to be logically impregnable? Now, in
the present case, no man will really suppose it is a wise and just
conformity that I am inveighing against.
_Ellesmere_. I am not sure of that. If everybody is to have independent
thought, would there not be a fearful instability and want of
compactness? Another thing, too—conformity often saves so much time and
trouble.
_Milverton_. Yes; it has its uses. I do not mean, in the world of
opinion and morality, that it should be all elasticity and no
gravitation; but at least enough elasticity to preserve natural form and
independent being.
_Ellesmere_. I think it would have been better if you had turned the
essay another way, and instead of making it on conformity, had made it on
interference. That is the greater mischief and the greater folly, I
think. Why do people unreasonably conform? Because they feel
unreasonable interference. War, I say, is interference on a small scale
compared with the interference of private life. Then the absurdity on
which it proceeds; that men are all alike, or that it is desirable that
they should be; and that what is good for one is good for all.
_Dunsford_. I must say, I think, Milverton, you do not give enough
credit for sympathy, good-nature, and humility as material elements in
the conformity of the world.
_Ellesmere_. I am not afraid, my dear Dunsford, of the essay doing much
harm. There is a power of sleepy conformity in the world. You may just
startle your conformists for a minute, but they gravitate into their old
way very soon. You talk of their humility, Dunsford, but I have heard
people who have conformed to opinions, without a pretence of
investigation, as arrogant and intolerant towards anybody who differed
from them, as if they stood upon a pinnacle of independent sagacity and
research.
_Dunsford_. One never knows, Ellesmere, on which side you are. I
thought you were on mine a minute or two ago; and now you come down upon
me with more than Milverton’s anti-conforming spirit.
_Ellesmere_. The greatest mischief, as I take it, of this slavish
conformity, is in the reticence it creates. People will be, what are
called, intimate friends, and yet no real interchange of opinion takes
place between them. A man keeps his doubts, his difficulties, and his
peculiar opinions to himself. He is afraid of letting anybody know that
he does not exactly agree with the world’s theories on all points. There
is no telling the hindrance that this is to truth.
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