Friends in Council — First SeriesHelps, Arthur, Sir
Philosophy
Friends in Council — First Series
Helps, Arthur, Sir
Conduct of life
Then, in addition to these great qualities, truth-telling in its highest
sense requires a well-balanced mind. For instance, much exaggeration,
perhaps the most, is occasioned by an impatient and easily moved
temperament which longs to convey its own vivid impressions to other
minds, and seeks by amplifying to gain the full measure of their
sympathy. But a true man does not think what his hearers are feeling,
but what he is saying.
More stress might be laid than has been on the intellectual requisites
for truth, which are probably the best part of intellectual cultivation;
and as much caused by truth as causing it. {12} But, putting the
requisites for truth at the fewest, see of how large a portion of the
character truth is the resultant. If you were to make a list of those
persons accounted the religious men of their respective ages, you would
have a ludicrous combination of characters essentially dissimilar. But
true people are kindred. Mention the eminently true men, and you will
find that they are a brotherhood. There is a family likeness throughout
them.
* * * * *
If we consider the occasions of exercising truthfulness and descend to
particulars, we may divide the matter into the following heads:—truth to
oneself—truth to mankind in general—truth in social relations—truth in
business—truth in pleasure.
1. Truth to oneself. All men have a deep interest that each man should
tell himself the truth. Not only will he become a better man, but he
will understand them better. If men knew themselves, they could not be
intolerant to others.
It is scarcely necessary to say much about the advantage of a man knowing
himself for himself. To get at the truth of any history is good; but a
man’s own history—when he reads that truly, and, without a mean and
over-solicitous introspection, knows what he is about and what he has
been about, it is a Bible to him. “And David said unto Nathan, I have
sinned before the Lord.” David knew the truth about himself. But truth
to oneself is not merely truth about oneself. It consists in maintaining
an openness and justness of soul which brings a man into relation with
all truth. For this, all the senses, if you might so call them, of the
soul must be uninjured—that is, the affections and the perceptions must
be just. For a man to speak the truth to himself comprehends all
goodness; and for us mortals can only be an aim.
2. Truth to mankind in general. This is a matter which, as I read it,
concerns only the higher natures. Suffice it to say, that the
withholding large truths from the world may be a betrayal of the greatest
trust.
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