Friends in Council — First SeriesHelps, Arthur, Sir
Philosophy
Friends in Council — First Series
Helps, Arthur, Sir
Conduct of life
It is difficult to think too highly of the merits and delights of truth;
but there is often in men’s minds an exaggerated notion of some bit of
truth, which proves a great assistance to falsehood. For instance, the
shame of some particular small falsehood, exaggeration, or insincerity,
becomes a bugbear which scares a man into a career of false dealing. He
has begun making a furrow a little out of the line, and he ploughs on in
it to try and give some consistency and meaning to it. He wants almost
to persuade himself that it was not wrong, and entirely to hide the
wrongness from others. This is a tribute to the majesty of truth; also
to the world’s opinion about truth. It proceeds, too, upon the notion
that all falsehoods are equal, which is not the case; or on some fond
craving for a show of perfection, which is sometimes very inimical to the
reality. The practical, as well as the high-minded, view in such cases,
is for a man to think how he can be true now. To attain that, it may,
even for this world, be worth while for a man to admit that he is
inconsistent, and even that he has been untrue. His hearers, did they
know anything of themselves, would be fully aware that he was not
singular, except in the courage of owning his insincerity.
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_Ellesmere_. That last part requires thinking about. If you were to
permit men, without great loss of reputation, to own that they had been
insincere, you might break down some of that majesty of truth you talk
about. And bad men might avail themselves of any facilities of owning
insincerity, to commit more of it. I can imagine that the apprehension
of this might restrain a man from making any such admission as you allude
to, even if he could make up his mind to do it otherwise.
_Milverton_. Yes; but can anything be worse than a man going on in a
false course? Each man must look to his own truthfulness, and keep that
up as well as he can, even at the risk of saying, or doing, something
which may be turned to ill account by others. We may think too much
about this reflection of our external selves. Let the real self be
right. I am not so fanciful as to expect men to go about clamouring that
they have been false; but at no risk of letting people see that, or of
even being obliged to own it, should they persevere in it.
_Dunsford_. Milverton is right, I think.
_Ellesmere_. Do not imagine that I am behind either of you in a wish to
hold up truth. My only doubt was as to the mode. For my own part, I
have such faith in truth that I take it mere concealment is in most cases
a mischief. And I should say, for instance, that a wise man would be
sorry that his fellows should think better of him than he deserves. By
the way, that is a reason why I should not like to be a writer of moral
essays, Milverton—one should be supposed to be so very good.
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