Gerald Eversley's Friendship: A Study in Real Life — John Shaqi
Gerald Eversley's Friendship: A Study in Real LifeWelldon, J. E. C. (James Edward Cowell)
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Gerald Eversley's Friendship: A Study in Real Life
Welldon, J. E. C. (James Edward Cowell)
Endowed public schools (Great Britain) -- Fiction; Friendship in youth -- Fiction
A public school, then, is the home of the commonplace. It is there that
mediocrity sits upon her throne. There the spirit which conforms to
custom is lauded to the skies. There the spirit which is independent
and original is apt to be crushed. And yet to these public schools
of England come boys of all sorts, conditions and characters, strong
boys, delicate boys, rough boys, impudent boys, sensitive boys, unhappy
boys, boys who have many friends, boys who have no friends, boys who
are capable of fighting their way against odds, and boys to whom every
harsh or inconsiderate word is a pang; they are all sent without
discrimination to live as they may, and to shape their own characters
or the characters of others by the simple primitive process of rubbing
down inequalities through constant friction. Parents and schoolmasters
often assume that the English system of public school life is suited to
all boys, and that, if boys dislike it, it is all the better for them.
It is forgotten how many boys of highest temper and keenest feeling
have derived not benefit but injury from their school. There is no
reason to deny that the public school system is good for the majority
of boys. But it has its victims. How often has it happened that the
boys, whose names have in after life been the glory and pride of their
schools, have been ignored, depreciated, persecuted in their school
lives! It is not needless--it cannot be wrong--to plead for a kindly
sympathetic forbearance from masters and boys, yes, from masters as
much as from boys, towards the stricken, suffering, despised members of
the flock. For of these was Gerald Eversley.
It will, perhaps, be thought that the masters of a public school, as
being presumably men of wisdom and experience, should correct the
sympathies and prejudices of their pupils. But to think so is to
exaggerate the power of masters. Masters have less influence upon
a school than is sometimes supposed, perhaps than they themselves
suppose. They do not always create public opinion, and often they
follow it. They take their tone from the boys, as well as the boys
from them. Sometimes they admire the boys whom the boys themselves
admire; they ignore those whom the boys ignore. It is only here and
there that a master has the courage and the self-denial to leave the
popular, pleasant, responsive boys to themselves and seek those who are
destitute and out of the way. There are masters who do this, and they
deserve great credit for it. But too often masters waste their favours
upon those who do not need them, and the misunderstood boys whom their
schoolfellows neglect are equally neglected by their masters.
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