Good-bye to all that : $b An autobiographyGraves, Robert
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Good-bye to all that : $b An autobiography
Graves, Robert
Authors, English -- 20th century -- Biography; Graves, Robert, 1895-1985; World War, 1914-1918 -- Personal narratives, British
At first we had so little money that we did all the work in the house
ourselves, including the washing. I did the cooking, Nancy did the
mending and making the children’s clothes; we shared the rest of the
work. Later money improved: we found it more economical to send the
washing out and get a neighbour in to do some of the heavier cleaning
and scrubbing. In our last year at Islip we even had a decrepit car
which Nancy drove. My part was to wind it up; the energy that I put
into winding was almost equivalent to pushing it for a mile or two. The
friends who gave it to us told us that its name was ‘Dr. Marie,’ and
when we asked ‘Why?’ we were told ‘Because it’s all right in theory.’
One day when Nancy was driving down Foxcombe Hill, the steepest hill
near Oxford, there was a slight jar. Nancy thought it advisable to
stop; when we got out we found that there were only three wheels on the
car. The other, with part of the axle, was retrieved nearly a mile back.
These four years I spent chiefly on housework and being nurse to the
children. Catherine was born in 1922 and Sam in 1924. By the end
of 1925 we had lived for eight successive years in an atmosphere
of teething, minor accidents, epidemics, and perpetual washing of
children’s napkins. I did not dislike this sort of life except
for the money difficulties, I liked my life with the children. But the
strain told on Nancy. She was constantly ill, and often I had to take
charge of everything. She tried occasionally to draw; but by the time
she had got her materials together some alarm from the nursery would
always disturb her. She said at last that she would not start again
until all the children were house-trained and old enough for school.
I kept on writing because the responsibility for making money rested
chiefly on me, and because nothing has ever stopped me writing when I
have had something to write. We kept the cottage cleaned and polished
in a routine that left us little time for anything else. We had
accumulated a number of brass ornaments and utensils and allowed them
to become a tyranny, and our children wore five times as many clean
dresses as our neighbours’ children did.
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