Good-bye to all that : $b An autobiographyGraves, Robert
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Good-bye to all that : $b An autobiography
Graves, Robert
Authors, English -- 20th century -- Biography; Graves, Robert, 1895-1985; World War, 1914-1918 -- Personal narratives, British
My mother used to tell us stories about inventors and doctors who gave
their lives for the suffering, and poor boys who struggled to the top
of the tree, and saintly men who made examples of themselves. There
was also the parable of the king who had a very beautiful garden which
he threw open to the public. Two students entered; and one, who was
the person of whom my mother spoke with a slight sneer in her voice,
noticed occasional weeds even in the tulip-beds, but the other, and
there she brightened up, found beautiful flowers growing even on
rubbish heaps. She kept off the subject of war as much as possible; she
always had difficulty in explaining to us how it was that God permitted
wars. The Boer War clouded my early childhood; Philip, my eldest
brother (who also called himself a Fenian), was a pro-Boer and there
was great tension at the breakfast-table between him and my father,
whose political views were always orthodox.
The sale of the Wimbledon house solved a good many problems; it was
getting too full. My mother hated throwing away anything that could
possibly, in the most remote contingency, be of any service to anyone.
The medicine cupboard was perhaps the most significant corner
of the house. Nobody could say that it was untidy, exactly; all the
bottles had stoppers, but they were so crowded together that it was
impossible for anybody except my mother, who had a long memory, to
know what was at the back. Every few years, no doubt, she went through
this cupboard. If there was any doubtful bottle she would tentatively
re-label it. ‘This must be Alfred’s old bunion salve,’ and another,
‘Strychnine—query?’ Even special medicines prescribed for scarlet-fever
or whooping-cough were kept, in case of re-infection. She was always
an energetic labeller. She wrote in one of my school prizes: ‘Robert
Ranke Graves won this book as a prize for being first in his class
in the term’s work and second in examinations. He also won a special
prize for divinity, though the youngest boy in the class. Written by
his affectionate mother, Amy Graves. Summer, 1908.’ Home-made jam
used always to arrive at table well labelled; one small pot read:
‘Gooseberry, lemon and rhubarb—a little shop gooseberry added—Nelly
re-boiled.’
In a recent book, _Mrs. Fisher_, I moralized on three sayings and
a favourite story of my mother’s. I ascribed them there for the
argument’s sake to my Danish grandmother. They were these:
‘Children, I command you, as your mother, never to swing objects
around in your hands. The King of Hanover put out his eye by swinging
a bead purse.’
‘Children, I command you, as your mother, to be careful when you
carry your candles up to bed. The candle is a little cup of grease.’
‘There was a man once, a Frenchman, who died of grief because he
could never become a mother.’
And the story told in candlelight:
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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