Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
Those who will be able to do the best service in the closing work of the
world’s history, to win the richest trophies for our coming King, will
be those who, together with the “commandments of God and the faith of
Jesus,” and the fulness of the Holy Spirit, will know and observe in
deportment that which the world recognizes as good form.
IV.
The whole social problem, as regards pure living, home-making, and
domestic comfort, depends on how young people, as such, shall deport
themselves toward each other.
Some good people have seemed to suppose that, provided the children were
converted, everything else would take care of itself, so that any
specific instruction in “_manners_” must be superfluous, if not foolish.
This is a fallacy of the same order as that which assumes that if a man
is called of God to preach the gospel he needs no education or
preparation, only to stand up, open his mouth, and give his vocal organs
a chance to play, leaving God to do the rest; when the fact is that God
will make good use of every faculty, and all the culture that is
provided for him, but of _no more_. The name Christian should stand for
the very best that is possible in education. Many a Christian man has
brought reproach on the name of Christ, not because his heart was bad,
but because his manners were. Many a woman of pure purpose, who would
not have committed a gross act for the world, has alienated her husband,
made her neighbors suspicious, and lost her good name, just because she
did not know what things were of good report, and therefore what must be
of evil report. And these disasters resulted from lack of proper
training in the early home on some points that seem too trivial to think
about twice, and which, doubtless, many will feel have no place in a
dignified discussion anywhere. And yet since these small things concern
so much of weal or woe, so much of honor or shame, we may well afford to
take time for their consideration.
One of the things most commonly seen, and about which all the world
smiles, is a boy and girl standing on opposite sides of the gate which
opens toward her home. They have walked from school or church together,
she has entered and closed the gate, and paused a moment for another
word; he has taken this as an invitation to linger, and so they stand
laughingly or seriously chatting, sometimes long after dark. The world
calls it coquetry, but the young people do not mean it as such; to them
it is probably far removed from every evil thought. They are innocent
and honest; but you can not make the world, that is looking for evil,
believe that they are not consciously flirting. It will estimate them
accordingly, and soon begin to say, “That girl knows quite as much as
she ought to;” and the good Christian people of the community will grow
afraid of her as an associate for their daughters, even if those same
daughters do the same thing.
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