Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
One of the first efforts that men or women will make if they have an “ax
to grind,” or “something to borrow,” will be to appear well. If they
have anything “to push,” an advantage to secure, which makes it
necessary that some influential people shall be “won over” to some
certain way of thinking, they will study every movement, turn, and word;
learn tact, self-control, or anything else by which they can hope to
succeed.
Many a man has practised facial expression for hours before a mirror,
not for amusement, but for _business_; to the end that he might tone
down or eradicate certain lines which would make an unfavorable
impression upon those whom he met, and has carefully cultivated in their
place those that would be sure to give him a better introduction among
those whom he intended to use to his own profit or pleasure. This is
constantly done in the interests of self, and has often resulted in
forwarding those mercenary and sometimes criminal ends for which it was
designed.
For the same purpose men learn grace of carriage,—how to enter and leave
a room, how to moderate every tone; and practise laboriously in private,
to fix as habit anything which they believe to be desirable, and
eradicate anything that would be a hindrance, so that they may never be
taken off guard by any rush of feeling, and so jeopardize the selfish
interests which are at stake.
For the same end little children are put into training of the most
exacting sort, and grow up almost perfect copies of some great master in
certain forms which, while in themselves empty, yet are like buckets,
capable of holding anything. And until Christians are willing to labor
as faithfully to become winsome themselves, and train their children to
do the best of all work in the best of all forms, they have not yet come
to love the truth as the world loves self.
The truth is to be carried to all people, high and low. A boor, who
loves the truth, and who is filled with the Holy Spirit, may do a good
work in some lines. If he has had no opportunities to know how to carry
himself among men, except such knowledge as comes by being a Christian,
God will keep him where he can be used, and will use him to his glory,
and give him sheaves to bring home at last.
“Be a Christian” is an easy answer to the question, “How shall I conduct
myself in such and such a case?” But a man may be a Christian, and yet,
for the lack of some specific instruction in certain forms of procedure,
perpetrate a blunder which will bring the laugh from the profane whom he
wished to arouse to sober thought; or make a mistake, such as will carry
and widely scatter a serious misunderstanding by which Christ will be
reproached and his work hindered.
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