Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
Unquestionably, this work is waiting for some select few of our young
people in the not far distant future. Some great council of physicians
will wish to know all about what the medical missionary physicians
teach, and why; the chemists of the world will wish to know the
philosophy of the system of dietetics which will keep the temple of God
in repair; and, as is almost always the case among the people of the
world, there will be eating and drinking on a large scale connected with
all these investigations; and your boy or girl may have to accept the
place as guest of honor at some such feast, and carry himself
_elegantly_, for Christ’s sake and the truth’s; for the banquet, the
dinner, the lunch, play an important part in all social affairs to-day,
and will until the end of probation.
If a man of means and social standing becomes interested enough in what
you know of Christ to hear you out on it, he will make you a dinner,
invite a few friends, and give you a chance to talk and tell all you
know. And if you know how to take advantage of the opportunity—how to
avoid giving offense by your manner of speech and habits of conduct; if
you know how to charm and win by your personality, you have placed at
the command of truth an instrument that can be made effective where,
otherwise, no entrance could be gained.
Nowhere is the observance of good form more necessary to one who has
work to do in the social world than at the table; for here bad habits
may be given such disgusting publicity as to render them a cause of
reproach to any good cause; and the obligation is upon every Christian
home to see that its children are so instructed that they shall be ready
to quickly fill any place to which the work may call, and to stand with
dignity for the truth in any place that can be opened to its
consideration.
A home of wealth and elaborate appliances is not necessary for such
training. A child who is instructed in the proper use of the few simple
things that constitute the furnishing of the most humble home, and in
those rules of good form that ought to be the natural order in any
place, will not be left to carry with him into some important
convocation careless table habits, which, under the pressure of a sense
of responsibility, would certainly come to the front, in place of the
few better ways that he might have picked up and stored away for
occasional and special use.
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