Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
It is, however, a great deal more important to _be_ than to _do_; for it
is out of the _being_ that the _doing_ must come. The point requiring
the most anxious consideration is that we may learn to truly know and
love the principle upon which safe conduct depends.
He who loves purity for its own sake—who hates impurity because of its
vileness, instead of for the painful consequences which follow its
practise, will never go very far astray from those manners which are of
good report in any society on earth. He will instinctively avoid the
appearance of evil as far as he knows how evil appears.
There are a few principles which are always a safeguard and defense to
those who will be controlled by them, which if woven into familiar
thought will render correctness in the details of conduct spontaneous
and inevitable. And yet circumstances may modify this fact. It is
sometimes slow work to get hold of a principle; and some specific
teaching as to just what to do, and what not to do, will often be a
great help to even those who are pure of heart, and have a mind to avoid
the appearance of evil.
Every detail of life must take note of the fact that the human unit
called man was created male and female, and must begin his earthly
career as boy and girl, each at best but a half of this unit. This, with
many correlated facts, must be kept before us in the process of
training. Up to a certain period boys and girls can play together and
associate with perfect unconsciousness of any difference between them,
but the careful parent and teacher must be alert with reference to the
time when nature awakens, after which their association can only be
safely on two lines,—Christian work and general good fellowship; and
these always under the chaperonage of some reliable and mature woman.
This is especially necessary in all lines of work to which Christian
young people in these days of special activity among the youth would be
urged, such as missionary meetings, cottage meetings, Sabbath-school,
house-to-house visiting. Without such chaperonage, boys and girls, young
men and young women, should never go together, even in Christian work;
but girls by themselves, and boys by themselves.
This is made necessary by the fact that nature has been perverted, that
the enemy of all purity has taken possession of every avenue of thought,
even from the cradle, and has filled the mind of childhood with
unprofitable imaginings, for which the only cure is the knowledge of the
truth pure and simple, adapted to their comprehension, and such
opportunities for association as shall make them mutual helps without
stimulating that self-consciousness that leads to curiosity and evil
suggestion.
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