Graham's Magazine, Vol. XLI, No. 2, August 1852Various
General
Graham's Magazine, Vol. XLI, No. 2, August 1852
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
The sentimental widow is quite as generous as her livelier sister. She
believes in romance and gushing affection. She is lonely after her great
loss, and would like another mate. After her first dear man was buried,
she felt like a lobster which has parted with a claw, and she retired
from gay life until nature, or good luck, should furnish her with the
means of reparation. Her heart is buried with her husband, but she
considers it only as a seed which in good time will spring up again and
blossom. If she weeps, she does it with a gentle sorrow, like a slight
sprinkle on a sunshiny day. Her sky has its clouds, but the cerulean of
anticipation lies beyond, and gives a pleasant aspect to the mists of
sadness. The gay widow laughs as if she had never been married; the
sentimental one smiles, but evidently remembers.
The one pretends that she is gay because she is free; the other is
cheerful, but hopes to become more cheerful in time. The first
audaciously declares that marriage is tyranny, and hopes that no man
will ever come near her! the second thinks mournfully upon the past, and
wonders whether she “will ever have another Charles Augustus;” yet the
sentimentalist mingles with the gay world, a sober votary of pleasure.
If she dances, it is but a plain cotillion; and she is shocked when the
lively Maria dashes out in a giddy polka. All such things are vanities
to the sentimental widow. She thinks how happy she was with her dear
departed Charles Augustus, and hopes that she will soon be as happy
again.
The sad widow is, for a long time after her bereavement, a sighing
pattern of inconsolable grief. The atmosphere of her home is rainy with
tears, and when abroad she is cloudy. Yet as time wears on, it is
evident that the forty days and forty nights of affliction’s great
deluge must go by, and at length the sorrowful widow will look for the
appearance of the sun of cheerfulness, and trust that with it will come
a rain beau. The gradual assumption of cheerfulness begins to make
itself visible in her costume. Half mourning assumes the place of sombre
weeds. On her face smiles occasionally chase away the lingering vestiges
of regret. The spring of calmness has come, and hyacinthine blossoms of
hope struggle up from the sodden desolation of wintry bleakness. Little
by little the sad widow becomes resigned to her great loss, and
gradually she learns to think that it may be repaired by a new
matrimonial gain. Yet she is slow in assuming the garniture of
happiness. She may occasionally be coaxed out into the world, and even
tempted to attend a party or ball; but she does not forget that she is a
widow. She is in the world, but yet not of it. She demeans herself as
becomes the lone relict of the late Mr. Sad, and does not like the
gayety of Mrs. Lively or the composure of Mrs. Sentiment.
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