Graham's Magazine, Vol. XX, No. 5, May 1842Various
General
Graham's Magazine, Vol. XX, No. 5, May 1842
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
“It is impossible to wait. Give me the things as they are; I am so
accustomed to wearing my shirts without buttons, and my stockings with
holes in, that I shall find it nothing new—nor more annoying than I
daily endure.” He threw the things carelessly into his carpet-bag, and
left the room, nor did he say one kindly word in farewell, or affection.
It was this giving away to violent anger, and using harsh language to
his wife that had broken her spirit, almost her heart. She never even
thought of reforming herself; she grieved bitterly, but hopelessly.
Surely it is better when man and wife are joined together by the tie
that “no man may put asunder,” to strive seriously, and in affection to
correct one another’s faults? There is scarcely any defect of character,
that a husband, by taking the right method may not cure; always
providing his wife is not unprincipled. But he must be very patient;
bear for a season; add to judicious counsel much tenderness and
affection; making it clear to her mind that love for herself and
solicitude for their mutual happiness are the objects in view. Hard in
heart, and with little of woman’s devotion unto him to whom her faith is
plighted, must the wife be who could long resist. Not such an one was
Lucy Clifton; but her husband in the stormy revulsion of feeling that
had attended the first breaking up of his domestic happiness, had done
injustice to her mind, to the sweetness of disposition that had borne
all his anger without retorting in like manner. If Clifton was conscious
of his own quickness of temper, approaching to violence, he did not for
one moment suppose, that _he_ was the cause of any portion of the misery
brooding over his daily path. He attributed it all to the
procrastinating spirit of Lucy, and upon her head he laid the blame with
no unsparing hand. He forgot that she had numbered twenty years, and was
the mother of two children; that her situation was one of exertion, and
toil under the most favorable circumstances; that he was much her
senior, had promised to cherish her tenderly. Yet the first harsh word
that dwelt on Lucy’s heart was from the lips of her husband! How
tenderly in years long gone had she been nurtured! The kind arm of a
father had guided and guarded her; the tender voice of a mother had
lighted on her path like sunshine—and now? Oh ye, who would crush the
spirit of the young and gentle, instead of leading it tenderly by a
straight path in the way of wisdom—go down into the breaking heart and
learn its agony; its desolation, when the fine feelings of a wasted
nature go in upon the brain and consume it!
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