Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXVI, No. 3, March 1850Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXVI, No. 3, March 1850
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Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
“If she had been poor, like myself,” he often sighs, as he turns away
from some memory of the past, “there would have been nothing to dim the
sunshine of our happiness; nor, if I had won my way to success by the
force of my own talents, ere I asked to lead her to the altar. Alas!
that the fine gold of affection should have been dimmed by the base
alloy of selfishness!”
That the inflamed spot, fretted into painfulness by the touch of even a
feather, still remains, is evident from the fact, that he has settled
ten thousand dollars upon his wife, and will not touch a farthing of the
income it yields. By this act he keeps alive in his own mind, as well as
in that of Clara, the memory of things that should be buried with the
mistakes and errors of the past, and thus robs both her and himself of a
portion of the happiness that is rightfully their due. On this subject,
suffering has made him little less than a monomaniac; and such he will
probably remain while he lives. How true is it that our motives give
quality to our acts, and mar all the effects that flow from them if they
be stained with selfishness. Most true is this of marriage. If a base or
mercenary end influence us in entering into this relation, unhappiness
must inevitably follow. A reaction, such as that which occurred in the
case of Ellison, may not take place; but there will come a reaction of
some kind, and that a painful one, as surely as an effect follows its
producing cause. Thousands around us fail to secure a true union in
marriage, that consummation above all things desired by the heart, and
for no other reason than the one here assigned. Of all motives from
which we act, let those leading to marriage be freest from alloy. We may
err in other things, and escape without a severe penalty; but never in
marriage. We cannot do violence to the heart’s best affections without
after years of pain and unavailing repentance.
* * * * *
THE SECRET.
I TOLD my wife a secret—
“And did she keep it?” say you.
Ah! therein lies the moral, man,
To which give heed, I pray you!
She kept it but an hour or two—
She then put on her bonnet,
And called upon her Cousin Sue,
That both might comment on it!
Alas! ere half the day was o’er,
Most dearly did I rue it!
Sue told it to a dozen more,
And they to others talked it o’er;
I found on coming from my store
That all the village knew it.
* * * * *
[Illustration: PORTRAIT OF GENERAL GREENE.]
* * * * *
LIFE OF GENERAL NATHANIEL GREENE.
BY THOMAS WYATT, A. M., AUTHOR Of “HISTORY Of THE KINGS Of FRANCE,” ETC.
ETC. ETC.
[SEE ENGRAVING.]
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