Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXVII, No. 1, July 1850Various
General
Graham's Magazine, Vol. XXXVII, No. 1, July 1850
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
The principle we have indicated, applies to all matters of human
concern, the simplest as well as the most complicated. Let us first take
a familiar instance from ordinary life. In the common intercourse of
society we are all painfully conscious of the dominion of the
mechanical, prescribing manner, proscribing nature. In the Siberian
atmosphere of most social assemblies the soul congeals. The tendency to
isolation of mind from mind, and heart from heart, is most apparent in
the contrivances by which society brings its members bodily
together—the formal politeness excluding the courtesy it mimics.
Hypocrisy, artifice, non-expression of the reality in persons—these are
apt to be the characteristics of that dreary solitude which passes under
the exquisitely ironical appellation of “good society.” The universal
destiny of men and women who engage in this game of fashion as the
business of life, is frivolity or ennui. They either fritter to pieces
or are bored to death. Nothing so completely wastes away the vitality of
the mind, and converts a person into a puppet, as this substitution of
the verb “to appear,” for the verb “to be.” Whatever is graceful in
manner, carriage and conversation, is natural; but the art of
politeness, as commonly practiced, is employed to deaden rather than
develop nature, from its ambition to reduce the finer instincts to
mechanical forms. In the very term of gentleman there is something
exceedingly winning and beautiful, expressing as it does a fine union of
intelligence and courtesy; but in genteel society the word too often
means nothing more than foppish emptiness, and Sir Philip Sidney gives
way to Beau Nash.
Even here, however, the moment a person with a genius for society
appears, it is curious to see how quickly the different elements are
fused together, by a few flashes of genuine social inspiration.
Convention is at once abolished, each heart finds a tongue, giggling
turns into merriment, conversation occurs and prattle ceases, and a
party is really organized. A little sincerity of this sort in social
intercourse would infinitely beautify life.
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