Happiness: Essays on the meaning of life — John Shaqi
Happiness: Essays on the meaning of lifeHilty, Karl
Philosophy
Happiness: Essays on the meaning of life
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
The second principle of good habits is fearlessness. Perhaps this is
not possible to acquire in a high degree without a strong religious
faith. This I will not discuss. It is, at any rate, certain that fear
is not only the least agreeable of human emotions, so that one should
at any cost conquer it, but that it is also the most superfluous. For
fear does not prevent the approach of that which is feared; it only
exhausts beforehand the strength which one needs to meet the thing he
fears. Most of the things which we fear to meet are not in reality so
terrible as they appear to be when looked at from afar. When they meet
us, they can be borne. The imagination is inclined to picture evils as
more permanent and persistent than they are really to be. If, as one’s
trouble approached, he should say to himself: “This is likely to last
about three days,” one would in many cases be justified by the event,
and, at any rate, would proceed to meet the trouble with a better
courage. On the whole, the best defence against fear which philosophy
can provide is the conviction that every fear is a symptom of some
wrong condition in ourselves. If one search for that weakness and rid
himself of it, then, for the most part, fear will vanish also.
Beyond this philosophical defence from fear, however, lie certain
spiritual conditions of courage. The chief of these is determining for
oneself what are the best blessings of life. First of all, one must
acquire as soon as possible the habit of preferring the better things
to the worse. He must especially abandon the expectation of possessing
at the same time different things which are contradictory of each
other. Here is the secret of failure in many a career. In my opinion,
a man may not only freely choose his aims in life, but he may attain
all those aims which he seriously and wholly desires, provided that
for the sake of this desire he is ready to surrender all other desires
which are inconsistent with it. The best possessions one can have in
life, and the things which, with reasonable sagacity, are the easiest
to get, are these: firm moral principles, intellectual discipline,
love, loyalty, the capacity for work and the enjoyment of it, spiritual
and physical health, and very moderate worldly possessions. No other
blessings can be compared with these, and some other possessions are
inconsistent with these--for instance, great wealth, great worldly
honor and power, habitual self-indulgence. These are the things which
people commonly most desire, and which they very often attain, but they
must always be attained through the surrender of the better things.
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