Happiness: Essays on the meaning of lifeHilty, Karl
Philosophy
Happiness: Essays on the meaning of life
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
live for a while by this creed, and you will learn soon enough how much
of hate and how little of love you are likely to receive.
In all the points thus far indicated, and especially in the last, there
is no place for half-way conduct. There must be a complete and absolute
decision, with no petty and clever computations of consequences. And in
addition to these more decisive rules of habit, there are many smaller
ones which go to reinforce and make practicable the larger principles.
For instance, there is the Gospel command: “Let the dead bury their
dead.” The dead are the best people to do this work. If one refrain
from controversy about what is past and gone, then one may give himself
to tasks of positive construction, and not merely to that destructive
work which, even if it be essential, should be subordinate. Many a
memorial has been dedicated to those who destroy which should have been
reserved for those who fulfil.
And yet, one must not let himself be cheated. He must not even be
thought to be easily duped. He must let the would-be clever people know
that he reads their thoughts and knows what they are seeking. One may,
as I have already said, read such thoughts quite thoroughly if one be
no longer blinded by any selfishness of his own.
Apart from this degree of self-defence, which is so far necessary,
the better plan in general is to see the good side of people and
to take for granted that there is good in them. Then it not only
happens that they often make the effort to be good and become actually
better through one’s appreciation of them, but it also happens that
one is saved from a personal experience of regret or distress. For
intercourse with persons whom one recognizes as bad, demoralizes one’s
own nature, and in the case of sensitive persons may go so far as to
have even a physical effect. What is bad needs no severity of criticism
or of reproach. In most cases it needs only to be brought to the light.
Then, even if the man protest that he is not bad, his conscience
judges him. Therefore, when one must blame others, he should proceed
with great calmness, speak of the matter without disguise and without
glossing, but simply and without passion. Passionate reproaches seldom
do good, and good people who lack sympathy are apt to be very trying.
There is a kind of virtuous character not unfamiliar in some Protestant
circles which to those who differ from its convictions seems to have
no capacity for love. It is especially aggravating to young people, so
that they often prefer the company of the vicious to that of moral but
cold-blooded friends.
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