Harvard Classics Volume 28: Essays English and American
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Harvard Classics Volume 28: Essays English and American
American essays; English essays
86. III.--Thus far, then, of the nature, thus far of the teaching, of
women, and thus of her household office, and queenliness. We come now
to our last, our widest question,--What is her queenly office with
respect to the state?
Generally we are under an impression that a man's duties are public,
and a woman's private. But this is not altogether so. A man has a
personal work or duty, relating to his own home, and a public work or
duty, which is the expansion of the other, relating to the state. So a
woman has a personal work and duty, relating to her own home, and a
public work and duty, which is also the expansion of that.
Now the man's work for his own home is, as has been said, to secure its
maintenance, progress, and defence; the woman's to secure its order,
comfort, and loveliness.
Expand both these functions. The man's duty, as a member of a
commonwealth, is to assist in the maintenance, in the advance, in the
defense of the state. The woman's duty, as a member of the
commonwealth, is to assist in the ordering, in the comforting, and in
the beautiful adornment of the state.
What the man is at his own gate, defending it, if need be, against
insult and spoil, that also, not in a less, but in a more devoted
measure, he is to be at the gate of his country, leaving his home, if
need be, even to the spoiler, to do his more incumbent work there.
And, in like manner, what the woman is to be within her gates, as the
center of order, the balm of distress, and the mirror of beauty; that
she is also to be without her gates, where order is more difficult,
distress more imminent, loveliness more rare.
And as within the human heart there is always set an instinct for all
its real duties,--an instinct which you cannot quench, but only warp
and corrupt if you withdraw it from its true purpose;--as there is the
intense instinct of love, which, rightly disciplined, maintains all the
sanctities of life, and, misdirected, undermines them; and _must_ do
either the one or the other;--so there is in the human heart an
inextinguishable instinct, the love of power, which, rightly directed,
maintains all the majesty of law and life, and, misdirected, wrecks
them.
87. Deep rooted in the innermost life of the heart of man, and of the
heart of woman, God set it there, and God keeps it there. Vainly, as
falsely, you blame or rebuke the desire of power!--For Heaven's sake,
and for Man's sake, desire it all you can. But _what_ power? That is
all the question. Power to destroy? the lion's limb, and the dragon's
breath? Not so. Power to heal, to redeem, to guide, and to guard.
Power of the scepter and shield; the power of the royal hand that heals
in touching,--that binds the fiend and looses the captive; the throne
that is founded on the rock of Justice, and descended from only by
steps of mercy. Will you not covet such power as this, and seek such
throne as this, and be no more housewives, but queens?
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