Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of LifeDreiser, Theodore
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Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of Life
Dreiser, Theodore
American essays -- 20th century
In the next place it is a part of my personal observation that children
of warring or troubled homes, where they are made to endure them, are
worse off than are those who have escaped through fracture and been
thrown on their own resources or are assisted by the charity of the
state, or relatives, or the citizens of the country generally, to say
nothing of the love or obligation of one or both of the separated
parents. There is a deal too much sentiment attaching to the home as
such to-day, sentiment not justified by facts. All homes are not ideal
rearing-places for children, by any means. Consider the vast factory
communities everywhere, too easily forgotten by the comfortable
intellectual classes, and again the slums. The homes in these are, if
one were to pay strict attention to the moralist, as ideal
rearing-places for children as any other; yet we know that life offers
pits of horror as well as abodes of sweetness and light in the guise of
the modern so-called home. Again, it should be remembered that the home
was made for man, not man for the home, and when the home fails as a
vehicle of comfort and aid it should be done away with. It is, after
all, only wood or stone or plaster, an economic convenience at best.
And, anyhow, where the heart is is home, though it be a bed under the
open sky or in a new lodging-house every hour. And this generalization
is not intended to exclude children either. The children of troubled
warring homes live in a kind of hell of temperament from which they are
glad enough to escape as they grow older, and from which they evolve the
dream of building something better for themselves, for they realize the
horror of the thing they have endured.
The basic reason for destroying many a home is that the children may not
be injured. All life administers its sternest reprimands to those who
abuse children. Life loves children. It really prefers them to their
elders--the biologic process so does. There is a public obligation to
them which we all acknowledge. But this is not to say that all parents
should therefore be compelled to rear their children. It may well be
that they are not fitted economically or mentally or otherwise so to do.
Their whole duty is, or might well be, done when they support them
properly. The state should do the rest, for, as I have just suggested,
most people are not fit to rear their children; and I say this with the
greatest respect for the human and very charming impulse which causes
them to wish to. The intellectual standards of the average individual
are not much; those of the state are in the main better and should and
may be trusted to do better by the children than any of millions of
parents.
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_Under what circumstance is divorce justifiable?_
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