Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of LifeDreiser, Theodore
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Hey Rub-a-dub-dub: A Book of the Mystery and Wonder and Terror of Life
Dreiser, Theodore
American essays -- 20th century
war between the so-called light and darkness of life--between sin and
virtue--and these special phases of asceticism or temperamental coolness
are the foundation of all religions apparently.
Such individuals would argue, for instance, that the child of a loveless
marriage is as well off as a child of a marriage of any other kind,
provided he is clothed and fed, washed and schooled and thoroughly
inculcated with the belief that sex is a crime. The less love enters
into the child’s life at any time the better, say they. Children will do
better, make better men and women, and make more money, if they do not
love too much. Thus stands the world, divided between the hot and the
cold, the stern and the tender, the fools of passion and the fools of
material order and well-being. Is the one better or wiser than the
other? I do not know. You may pay your money and take your choice, for
you cannot well serve passion and materiality at the same time.
Personally I stand with the fools of love, because I think for all their
follies and errors and Lear-like ends they are happier.
IV
_If the answer is Yes, are the children better served by successive
marriages than by a home where parents are held together if not by
love by a sense of duty to their children?_
I would not say that children are, in the main, better served by
successive marriages due to changes of temperament, because I do not
know, but I can truly say that I am fairly well satisfied, from my
personal observation, that they are no worse served. In the first place
the fate of the modern child is not nearly so much in the hands of
individual parents as it is in those of the state, the public schools
and their teachers, the newspapers and their editors, the judges of
courts and public and private citizens generally; for the modern child
can almost say to-day that the state is both my father and my mother and
it will take care of me. When it can really say this we will be much
better off, for we are all going to be happier. The extremes of misery
in childhood are going to be done away with.
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