Women -- Suffrage -- History; Women -- Suffrage -- United States -- History; Women's rights -- History; Women's rights -- United States -- History
At marriage she loses her entire identity, and her being is said
to have become merged in her husband. Has nature thus merged it?
Has she ceased to exist and feel pleasure and pain? When she
violates the laws of her being, does her husband pay the penalty?
When she breaks the moral laws, does he suffer the punishment?
When he supplies his wants, is it enough to satisfy her nature?
And when at his nightly orgies, in the grog-shop and the
oyster-cellar, or at the gaming-table, he squanders the means she
helped, by her co-operation and economy, to accumulate, and she
awakens to penury and destitution, will it supply the wants of
her children to tell them that, owing to the superiority of man
she had no redress by law, and that as her being was merged in
his, so also ought theirs to be? What an inconsistency, that from
the moment she enters that compact, in which she assumes the high
responsibility of wife and mother, she ceases legally to exist,
and becomes a purely submissive being. Blind submission in woman
is considered a virtue, while submission to wrong is itself
wrong, and resistance to wrong is virtue, alike in woman as in
man.
But it will be said that the husband provides for the wife, or in
other words, he feeds, clothes, and shelters her! I wish I had
the power to make every one before me fully realize the
degradation contained in that idea. Yes! he _keeps_ her, and so
he does a favorite horse; by law they are both considered his
property. Both may, when the cruelty of the owner compels them
to, run away, be brought back by the strong arm of the law, and
according to a still extant law of England, both may be led by
the halter to the market-place, and sold. This is humiliating
indeed, but nevertheless true; and the sooner these things are
known and understood, the better for humanity. It is no fancy
sketch. I know that some endeavor to throw the mantle of romance
over the subject, and treat woman like some ideal existence, not
liable to the ills of life. Let those deal in fancy, that have
nothing better to deal in; we have to do with sober, sad
realities, with stubborn facts.
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