Women -- Suffrage -- History; Women -- Suffrage -- United States -- History; Women's rights -- History; Women's rights -- United States -- History
Again, I shall be told that the law presumes the husband to be
kind, affectionate, and ready to provide for and protect his
wife. But what right, I ask, has the law to presume at all on the
subject? What right has the law to intrust the interest and
happiness of one being into the hands of another? And if the
merging of the interest of one being into the other is a
necessary consequence on marriage, why should woman always remain
on the losing side? Turn the tables. Let the identity and
interest of the husband be merged in the wife. Think you she
would act less generously toward him, than he toward her? Think
you she is not capable of as much justice, disinterested
devotion, and abiding affection, as he is? Oh, how grossly you
misunderstand and wrong her nature! But we desire no such undue
power over man; it would be as wrong in her to exercise it as it
now is in him. All we claim is an equal legal and social
position. We have nothing to do with individual man, be he good
or bad, but with the laws that oppress woman. We know that bad
and unjust laws must in the nature of things make man so too. If
he is kind, affectionate, and consistent, it is because the
kindlier feelings, instilled by a mother, kept warm by a sister,
and cherished by a wife, will not allow him to carry out these
barbarous laws against woman.
But the estimation she is generally held in, is as degrading as
it is foolish. Man forgets that woman can not be degraded without
its reacting on himself. The impress of her mind is stamped on
him by nature, and the early education of the mother, which no
after-training can entirely efface; and therefore, the estimation
she is held in falls back with double force upon him. Yet, from
the force of prejudice against her, he knows it not. Not long
ago, I saw an account of two offenders, brought before a Justice
of New York. One was charged with stealing a pair of boots, for
which offense he was sentenced to six months' imprisonment; the
other crime was assault and battery upon his wife: he was let off
with a reprimand from the judge! With my principles, I am
entirely opposed to punishment, and hold, that to reform the
erring and remove the causes of evil is much more efficient, as
well as just, than to punish. But the judge showed us the
comparative value which he set on these two kinds of _property_.
But then you must remember that the boots were taken by a
stranger, while the wife was insulted by her legal owner! Here it
will be said, that such degrading cases are but few. For the sake
of humanity, I hope they are. But as long as woman shall be
oppressed by unequal laws, so long will she be degraded by man.
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