Frequency of divorces—The new Civil Code on marriage
and divorce—Conditions of a valid marriage—Invalid
marriages—Cohabitation—The wife’s legal position—Her
separate property—The rights of the head of the family—Care
of the wife’s property—Forms of divorce—Grounds for divorce—Custody
of children—No damages against the co-respondent—Breaches of
promise of marriage—Few mercenary marriages—Widow-hunting also rare.
In the old days divorces took place on the slightest pretext. Among
the higher classes, it is true, the family connections which a
marriage brought into existence could not be dissolved without more
or less serious consequences, and the parties were, as in other
countries, expected to sacrifice their personal happiness to family
considerations; but among the other classes which were not influenced,
as a rule, by such worldly motives in their marriages, divorces were
of pretty frequent occurrence. And moreover, as they often took place
from no fault of the persons divorced, they came to lose to some
extent the stigma which usually attaches to them. Still, those women
who had been brought up with a strict, old-world sense of honour,
looked upon divorce as a stain upon their reputation; for if it did
not necessarily imply misconduct, it was attributable to want of tact
on the part of the _divorcée_, and although it arose not unfrequently
from the husband’s caprice, she was not, until that could be proved,
held altogether free from blame. As she was from the first supposed to
be prepared for a wilful, cross-tempered mother-in-law, it signified
a certain defect in her character that she should have failed to get
into her good graces; and the girl, therefore, ashamed to be exposed
to the ignominy of divorce, did her best to please her husband’s
family and would put up with almost anything rather than be sent away.
But the family relations sometimes became so strained that she
ran away or was packed home. Divorce was, moreover, easy to effect;
it needed nothing more than the re-transfer of the divorced wife’s
domicile from her husband’s home to her father’s. There was no
official inquiry, and a remarriage could take place at any time.
This unsatisfactory state of affairs was to a certain extent remedied
by the new Civil Code which came into operation in 1898, though it is
too early yet to say what permanent reform it has brought about in our
system of marriage and divorce; and it may be well, before entering
into the grounds on which a divorce may be sought under the new law,
to consider the conditions requisite for a valid marriage as they will
give some idea of the position taken by the legislature in regard
to matrimonial relations and so help us to understand its attitude
towards divorce.
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