House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
Under this head of hospitality, let us suppose a case. A traveller comes
from England; he comes in good faith and good feeling to see how
Americans live. He merely wants to penetrate into the interior of
domestic life, to see what there is genuinely and peculiarly American
about it. Now here is Smilax, who is living, in a small, neat way, on
his salary from the daily press. He remembers hospitalities received
from our traveller in England, and wants to return them. He remembers,
too, with dismay, a well-kept establishment, the well-served table, the
punctilious, orderly servants. Smilax keeps two, a cook and chambermaid,
who divide the functions of his establishment between them. What shall
he do? Let him say, in a fair, manly way, “My dear fellow, I’m delighted
to see you. I live in a small way, but I’ll do my best for you, and Mrs.
Smilax will be delighted. Come and dine with us, so and so, and we’ll
bring in one or two friends.” So the man comes, and Mrs. Smilax serves
up such a dinner as lies within the limits of her knowledge and the
capacities of her servants. All plain, good of its kind, unpretending,
without an attempt to do anything English or French,—to do anything more
than if she were furnishing a gala-dinner for her father or returned
brother. Show him your house freely, just as it is, talk to him freely
of it, just as he in England showed you his larger house and talked to
you of his finer things. If the man is a true man, he will thank you for
such unpretending, sincere welcome; if he is a man of straw, then he is
not worth wasting Mrs. Smilax’s health and spirits for, in unavailing
efforts to get up a foreign dinner-party.
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