Instances of marked talent or decided turn for some particular line of
study should be furthered and fostered to the utmost, consistently with
the possibility that after all the vocation may not be carried into
effect; but women are really more valuable, and more likely to be
happy, in what it is old-fashioned to call the sphere of a home.
And this is best prepared for by home training; which does not mean
being pushed aside so as to be out of the way, and shut up in the
nursery or school-room, but enjoying the companionship of a judicious
and sensible mother, and the freedom of the house--where the child will
be taught to behave herself properly, and be useful and obliging; where
she will have regular hours of study with her mother, her governess, or
at school, and yet have opportunities of seeing how everything is
managed in the kitchen and throughout the house, being allowed
occasionally to do some little thing herself, and so acquire some of
the needful practice; where she can be taught needlework and the proper
use of many tools; learn to carve, to cut bread and butter, to help
dishes neatly at table, and gain a knowledge of gardening and
green-house culture.
Children should be permitted to look on at the proceedings of all
workmen employed in or out of the house: the glazier, gasfitter,
gardener, carpet-stretcher, carpenter, locksmith, and piano-tuner; the
exceptions being the dustman and the sweep, because of the dirt.
How much money might be saved in a house if people understood the use
of a few tools, the construction of a few fittings, or could take a
piano to pieces and tune it. If a bell-wire is broken, a man is sent
for; he charges half a day's work and some materials, and generally
makes a little bit of work for some other tradesman, whereas a
knowledge of how to unscrew and take off the bell-cover would often
enable a piece of copper wire to be joined, and the bell set in order.
How often people fail to force down a window whose weights are just
over-lapping, where a blow with a mallet on the shutterbox would have
shaken them into their places; or, failing that, the box containing the
sash-weights might be opened by taking off the beading near the
window-sash, the cords and weights put straight, and the beading
replaced by hammering the brads. But no; we send for a man.
Our water-pipes burst in winter, because during a hard frost we have
not taken the precaution to turn the taps so that a few drops may pass
to relieve the pressure in thawing.
We cannot even frame and hang up a picture when we have painted it, or
cover a chair with the piece of needlework we have made. We do not know
how to renew the cord of a spring blind, nor many a little thing
besides; and yet any one who keeps a house in order knows how
constantly these things are recurring, and what a source of expense
they are.
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