Maturity, or the middle period of life, is in a sense the largest part
of life, and is not to be viewed merely as the period after youth and
before old age. It is relative only as all time is relative, but it is
absolute, too. In truth, it is the time of that self-dependence which
comes with the consciousness of power in maturity. It is the very body
and substance of life and least relative,—for youth is its foreshadowing
and old age the shadow which it casts behind. Middle age is not a link
between youth and old age, but that period of life to which youth is an
approach,—from which old age is an exit. Comparing life to a bridge,
youth and old age might be likened to the piers which must be builded,
but the linking together of the piers, the stretching of the cables over
which the larger part of life’s pilgrimage must be made is the task of
life’s middle period.
Life is so constituted that it were almost within the limits of
reasonableness to urge that life need not pass out of the middle stage
into old age. Loath though one be to enter upon maturity, it need never
be left behind in return for age if it be entered upon in the spirit of
preparedness. Middle age is hard and bitter if youth have been misspent,
if youth have not been the stage of conscious preparation for life.
Certain rules have been laid down for the governance of youth and the
question may be asked whether these are pertinent to the needs and tasks
of middle age,—namely the law that one must have an ideal by which to
live, and that one must not merely live by it but up to it. As for the
rules which are to be binding upon the middle period of life, who shall
venture to prescribe them, save that certain things are obviously
true,—that middle age shall continue that which youth initiates, and
that there shall be no sharp frontier dividing youth from that which
comes after. For middle age is not so much a part of life as it is life,
and life absolute.
Middle age is but a part of the same life-long journey which in its
early stages is youth, which culminates in age. And yet in a sense a
different type of rules and ordinances is applicable to every one of the
three great periods of life. For life is not a journey, even and
unvarying, over a wide plain. Life may best be likened to the ascent of
a mountain and in turn the descent from its summit, and the laws that
govern life must be variously modified in order to meet the needs of the
different periods along the journey.
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