Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
The other sort of egotism, not sharply distinguished from this in all
cases, belongs to people who have stability of mind and conduct, but
still without breadth and richness of sympathy, so that their aims and
sentiments are inadequate to the life around them—narrow, hard, mean,
self-satisfied, or sensual. This I would call the rigid type of egotism
because the essence of it is an arrest of sympathetic development and an
ossification as it were of what should be a plastic and growing part of
thought. Something of this sort is perhaps what is most commonly meant
by the word, and everyone can think of harsh, gross, grasping, cunning,
or self-complacent traits to which he would apply it. The self, to be
healthy or to be tolerable to other selves, must be ever moving on,
breaking loose from lower habits, walking hand-in-hand with sympathy and
aspiration. If it stops too long anywhere it becomes stagnant and
diseased, odious to other minds and harmful to the mind it inhabits. The
men that satisfy the imagination are chastened men; large, human,
inclusive, feeling the breadth of the world. It is impossible to think
of Shakespeare as arrogant, vain, or sensual; and if some, like Dante,
had an exigent ego, they succeeded in transforming it into higher and
higher forms.
Selfishness of the stable or rigid sort is as a rule more bitterly
resented than the more fickle variety, chiefly, no doubt, because,
having more continuity and purpose, it is more formidable.
One who accepts the idea of self, and of personality in general, already
set forth, will agree that what is ordinarily called egotism cannot
properly be regarded as the opposite of “altruism,” or of any word
implying the self-and-other classification of impulses. No clear or
useful idea of selfishness can be reached on the basis of this
classification, which, as previously stated, seems to me fictitious. It
misrepresents the mental situation, and so tends to confuse thought. The
mind has not, in fact, two sets of motives to choose from, the
self-motives and the other-motives, the latter of which stand for the
higher course, but has the far more difficult task of achieving a higher
life by gradually discriminating and organizing a great variety of
motives not easily divisible into moral groups. The proper antithesis of
selfishness is right, justice, breadth, magnanimity, or something of
that sort; something opposite to the narrowness of feeling and action in
which selfishness essentially consists. It is a matter of more or less
symmetry and stature, like the contrast between a gnarled and stunted
tree and one of ample growth.
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