Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
It would seem that the repression of non-conformity is a native impulse,
and that tolerance always requires some moral exertion. We all cherish
our habitual system of thought, and anything that breaks in upon it in a
seemingly wanton manner, is annoying to us and likely to cause
resentment. So our first tendency is to suppress the peculiar, and we
learn to endure it only when we must, either because it is shown to be
reasonable or because it proves refractory to our opposition. The
innovator is nearly as apt as anyone else to put down innovation in
others. Words denoting singularity usually carry some reproach with
them; and it would perhaps be found that the more settled the social
system is, the severer is the implied condemnation. In periods of
disorganization and change, such as ours is in many respects, people are
educated to comparative tolerance by unavoidable familiarity with
conflicting views—as religious toleration, for instance, is the outcome
of the continued spectacle of competing creeds.
Sir Henry Maine, in discussing the forces that controlled the legal
decisions of a Roman prætor, remarks that he “was kept within the
narrowest bounds by the prepossessions imbibed from early training and
by the strong restraints of professional opinion, restraints of which
the stringency can only be appreciated by those who have personally
experienced them.”[74] In the same way every profession, trade or
handicraft, every church, circle, fraternity or clique, has its more or
less definite standards, conformity to which it tends to impose on all
its members. It is not at all essential that there should be any
deliberate purpose to set up these standards, or any special machinery
for enforcing them. They spring up spontaneously, as it were, by an
unconscious process of assimilation, and are enforced by the mere
inertia of the minds constituting the group.
Thus every variant idea of conduct has to fight its way: as soon as
anyone attempts to do anything unexpected the world begins to cry, “Get
in the rut! Get in the rut! Get in the rut!” and shoves, stares, coaxes,
and sneers until he does so—or until he makes good his position, and so,
by altering the standard in a measure, establishes a new basis of
conformity. There are no people who are altogether non-conformers, or
who are completely tolerant of non-conformity in others. Mr. Lowell, who
wrote some of the most stirring lines in literature in defence of
non-conformity, was himself conventional and an upholder of conventions
in letters and social intercourse. Either to be exceptional or to
appreciate the exceptional requires a considerable expenditure of
energy, and no one can afford this in many directions. There are many
persons who take pains to keep their minds open; and there are groups,
countries, and periods which are comparatively favorable to
open-mindedness and variation; but conformity is always the rule and
non-conformity the exception.
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