Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
Science
Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
We are born to action; and whatever is capable of suggesting and guiding
action has power over us from the first. The attention of the new-born
child is fixed by whatever exercises the senses, through motion, noise,
touch, or color. Persons and animals interest him primarily because they
offer a greater amount and variety of sensible stimulus than other
objects. They move, talk, laugh, coax, fondle, bring food and so on. The
prestige they thus acquire over the child’s mind is shared with such
other stimulating phenomena as cars, engines, windmills, patches of
sunlight and bright-colored garments. A little later, when he begins to
acquire some control over his activities, he welcomes eagerly whatever
can participate in and so stimulate and guide them. The playthings he
cares for are those that go, or that he can do something with—carts,
fire-engines, blocks, and the like. Persons, especially those that share
his interests, maintain and increase their ascendency, and other
children, preferably a little older and of more varied resources than
himself, are particularly welcome. Among grown-ups he admires most those
who do something that he can understand, whom he can appreciate as
actors and producers—such as the carpenter, the gardener, the maid in
the kitchen. R. invented the happy word “thinger” to describe this sort
of people, and while performing similar feats would proudly proclaim
himself a thinger.
It will be observed that at this stage a child has learned to reflect
upon action and to discriminate that which is purposeful and effective
from mere motion; he has gained the notion of power. Himself constantly
trying to do things, he learns to admire those who can do things better
than himself, or who can suggest new things to do. His father sitting at
his desk probably seems an inert and unattractive phenomenon, but the
man who can make shavings or dig a deep hole is a hero; and the
seemingly perverse admiration which children at a later age show for
circus men and for the pirates and desperadoes they read about, is to be
explained in a similar manner. What they want is _evident_ power. The
scholar may possibly be as worthy of admiration as the acrobat or the
policeman; but the boy of ten will seldom see the matter in that light.
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