Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
In one of Mr. Theodore Child’s papers on French art he relates that
Dagnan said after the death of Bastien-Lepage, “With every new picture I
paint in future I shall try to think if he would have been satisfied
with it.” Almost the same has been said by an American author with
reference to Robert Louis Stevenson. And these instances are typical of
the general fact that our higher selves, our distinctively right views
and choices, are dependent upon imaginative realization of the points of
view of other persons. There is, I think, no possibility of being good
without living, imaginatively of course, in good company; and those who
uphold the moral power of personal example, as against that of abstract
thought are certainly in the right. A mental crisis, by its very
difficulty, is likely to call up the thought of some person we have been
used to look to as a guide, and the confronting of the two ideas, that
of the person and that of the problem, compels us to answer the question
What would he have thought of it? The guide we appeal to may be a person
in the room, or a distant friend, or an author whom we have never seen,
or an ideal person of religion. The strong, good men we have once
imagined live in our minds and fortify there the idea of worthiness.
They were free and noble and make us unhappy to be less.
Of course the influence of other persons often goes by contraries. The
thought of one who is repugnant to us often brings a strong sense of the
wrong of that for which he stands, and our conviction of the hatefulness
of any ill trait is much enlivened by intimate contact with one who
exhibits it.
The moral potency of confession, and of all sorts of publicity, rests
upon the same basis. In opening ourselves to another we are impelled to
imagine how our conduct appears to him; we take an outside view of
ourselves. It makes a great difference to whom we confess: the higher
the character of the person whose mind we imagine, the more enlightening
and elevating is the view of ourselves that we get. Even to write our
thoughts in a diary, and so to confess, not to a particular person, but
to that vague image of an interlocutor that connects itself with all
articulate expression, makes things look different.
It is, perhaps, much the same with prayer. To pray, in a higher sense,
is to confront our moral perplexities with the highest personal ideal we
can form, and so to be unconsciously integrating the two, straightening
out the one in accordance with the other. It would seem that social
psychology strongly corroborates the idea that prayer is an essential
aspect of the higher life; by showing, I mean, that thought, and
especially vivid thought, is interlocutory in its very nature, and that
aspiration almost necessarily takes, more or less distinctly, the form
of intercourse with an ideal being.
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