Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
Let us consider for a moment whether, or in what sense, this antithesis
is a just one.
As regards its relation to self we may, perhaps, distinguish two kinds
of love, one of which is mingled with self-feeling and the other is not.
The latter is a disinterested, contemplative joy, in feeling which the
mind loses all sense of its private existence; while the former is
active, purposeful, and appropriate, rejoicing in its object with a
sense of being one with it as against the rest of the world.
In so far as one feels the disinterested love, that which has no designs
with reference to its object, he has no sense of “I” at all, but simply
exists in something to which he feels no bounds. Of this sort, for
instance, seem to be the delight in natural beauty, in the landscape and
the shining sea, the joy and rest of art—so long as we have no thought
of production or criticism—and the admiration of persons regarding whom
we have no intentions, either of influence or imitation. It appears to
be the final perfection of this unspecialized joy that the Buddhist
sages seek in Nirvana. Love of this sort obliterates that idea of
separate personality whose life is always unsure and often painful. One
who feels it leaves the precarious self; his boat glides out upon a
wider stream; he forgets his own deformity, weakness, shame or failure,
or if he thinks of them it is to feel free of them, released from their
coil. No matter what you and I may be, if we can comprehend that which
is fair and great we may still have it, may transcend ourselves and go
out into it. It carries us beyond the sense of all individuality, either
our own or others’, into the feeling of universal and joyous life. The
“I,” the specialized self, and the passions involved with it, have a
great and necessary part to play, but they afford no continuing city;
they are so evidently transient and insecure that the idealizing mind
cannot rest in them, and is glad to forget them at times and to go out
into a life joyous and without bounds in which thought may be at peace.
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