To those elderly gentlemen, then, who watch with horror the upper- and
middle-class woman perpetrating similar follies to those of upper- and
middle-class men, the first question we would put is: “What education
did they give their daughters, and what was taught to their mothers
before them? What were the current ideas about feminine destiny which
encircled them in their impressionable years?” Many would answer,
still far too many, that their daughters were given the education of
a gentlewoman and fitted to become the wives of gentlemen. This we
know of old. The lady eats, drinks, digests, wears clothes, tinkles
the piano, dances, sings, handles a golf-club, submits to sex, bears
a child without the smallest notion of anatomy, turns from the whole
thing disgusted, and probably bears no more. Whose fault? Not hers.
They do not teach mothercraft or physiology in finishing schools for
gentlemen’s daughters, and it is no part of the duty of gentlemen’s
wives to reproduce their kind. Perhaps there is comfort in that.
A great many parents, however, would tell us that they gave their
daughters a good and liberal education in such schools as were
available, good ordinary boarding- and day-schools which have sprung
up during the last fifty years in response to the feminist propaganda.
Then we have the working woman, who has shared with her brothers in
what education is permitted to trickle through the elementary schools.
It must not be forgotten that this ends at fourteen.
Is there something wrong with this education of women, and if so, what?
I think we must judge that there is. The reason lies in the sense of
inferiority bred in women by so much oppression, and the natural result
that their chief aim as they struggled upwards was to prove that in
all respects they were just as good as men. The second aim was to
prove that they could jolly well do without them. In exactly the same
way the worker, rising in the social scale, seeks to prove himself a
_bourgeois_. Both efforts are mistaken. Each class and sex has that
to give to the common stock of achievement, knowledge, thought, which
it alone can give, and robs itself and the community by inferior
imitation. The feminist movement, like one dissentient voice in an
excited public meeting, was querulous, hysterical, uncertain of itself.
It dared not cry out that women had bodies. Its one hope of success
was to prove that women had minds. And it was right in this, that the
primary fact about men and women is not that they are two sexes apart,
but that they are human beings and as such should share all knowledge
in the world and make it the basis of their partnership and the rearing
of their children.
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