provided he and they all found mutual happiness in that arrangement;
nor for a woman to have six husbands and a child by each, if she and
they found such a life satisfactory. The wrong lies in rules that are
barriers between human beings who would otherwise reach a fuller and
more intense understanding of one another. And any man or woman of
intelligence and vitality can testify that to have known each other as
lovers is to have completed mental and spiritual, as well as physical,
understanding, and to have permanently enriched each other’s lives,
capacities, energies, imaginations. There is no need to make these
divisions into mind and body. There is no difference. A way of walking,
laughter, thoughts spoken or written, gestures of love or anger, colour
and light of eyes or hair――these are the human being, man or woman. It
is thus that modern individuals think of one another. When we think
so, it seems absurd to argue whether or no love between man and woman
should stop short of a certain kind of physical expression. It is
useless to say that a mental exchange is sufficient. On the contrary,
lovers know that it is through sexual understanding they best apprehend
the quality of each other’s minds. It is equally futile to argue that
woman is cheated of her full rights if children do not result. That is
not true.
It is said that modern human beings, by dint of not valuing the body,
are physically degenerate and lose the finest ecstasies of love. Their
digestions are poor, we are told, their breath foul, their teeth
bad. Was love more delightful, then, in the old days when baths were
unknown, when “sweet breath” in a woman was so rare as to be sung by
poets, and the reek of stale sweat was barely stifled by a strong
perfume? John Donne wrote verses to the flea he saw nestling in his
lady’s bosom. There is scarcely a fine gentleman to-day who could face
the prospect of making love to one of the fine ladies of the past six
or seven hundred years in Europe, if she could be presented to him just
as she was to her contemporary lovers. It is true that neither vermin,
filth, nor squalor――being equal for both――can stay the passion of sex
whether now or in the past, but I do not believe in the theory that
the rougher our physique the more intense our bodily delights. Health,
to be sure, is essential; but health is to be secured in the modern
world, not by a return to savagery, but by the use of intelligence. I
believe the bodies of young people of to-day to whom fair opportunities
have been given are more healthy within and without than they were
in past times. And I believe that the disappearance of religious and
moral dualism between mind and matter――not by an oppressive victory of
either, neither by rational and moral control, nor by abandonment to
sensual materialism, but by a better understanding of psychology and
physiology based on the discoveries of physical science――is bringing to
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