Let no one think this is petulant abuse. It is the accumulation of
these details, and the pressure of public opinion which gradually
destroy the nerve and independent judgment of married women who, in
their free state, have been brilliant and remarkable. It is the fact
that, by marriage, we conform and place ourselves in a line with
millions of others whose view of what we have done is entirely foreign
to our own. As a Labour Minister is corrupted by Court dress, so is
a free woman by the marriage-contract. Nothing but our desire for
children would make us endure it. We, to whom the mutual nature of
sex-love is sacred, to whom a partnership involving children is of
equal dignity on both sides, to whom the surrender of our whole being
in love is a free gift――the highest we can bestow; who would neither
bind ourselves nor others where love is non-existent; we must submit
to a contract based on rights of property and possession, buying and
selling of our bodies; a law whose conception of conjugal wrongs is
sin, punishment, and just revenge; and a Church whose utmost concession
is to bid us “serve” instead of “obey” our husbands. Build, O Aspasia,
a trade union of lovers to conquer the world, and cry aloud that
feminism is nowhere so much needed as in the home.
IV
HECUBA
_Feminist Mothers_
So far I have refrained from any detailed discussion of modern women
and maternity because it is still necessary to make it clear that a
full life of activity for women is perfectly possible and permissible
without it. I am quite aware that certain religious people assert
as a moral principle that the purpose of sex-love is not mutual
enjoyment but the perpetuation of the race. I am also aware that
militarists enjoin on women the necessity of marriage and large
families as a patriotic duty. Further, certain doctors have gone
out of their way to try to prove that the use of contraceptives is
contrary to health and nature. These same people, we may note, have
no aversion from the wearing by women of internal remedial rubber
supports for months on end nor to patching up with silver, papier
mâché, and other foreign materials, the insides and outsides of human
beings mutilated in the natural and healthy pursuit called war. I
am not concerned with the morals of convention or superstition, but
with the morals of experience. It is the experience of modern women
that sex is an instinctive need to them as it is to men, and further
that the prevention of conception brings to them no loss of poise,
health, or happiness. On the contrary, when once they embark on the
task of maternity, contraception is a blessed safeguard to health and
recovery in the periods of rest between pregnancies. I am not going
to deny that the most perfect delight known to human beings is the
completely reckless, mutually adoring union of two people of vitality
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