People will persist in imagining that uncivilized women were always
able to feed their children in natural fashion. Very often they were
obliged to seek the help of another mother, and, when that was not
forthcoming, the baby died. It is quite true that our adaptation to
modern conditions of life, nerve-stress, combined with overwork for
women in towns and industrial districts, has caused breast-feeding to
be less common than it was in the past. But here again the way of life
is not back to nature, which is impossible because we cannot at a blow
destroy industrialism and the towns――but onwards, to greater knowledge.
Instead of bullying the mothers and telling them it is wicked not to
feed their babies at the breast, let them know how, by pre-natal care
of health and strength, by diet, by deliberate nerve-control, they can
feed their babies with comfort and delight and without detriment to
their health and the work which they must necessarily do――or even to
their beauty. Here again, if choice is free and the child therefore
ardently desired, there is more chance of success with breast-feeding.
And knowledge of the chemical constituents of cow’s milk and patent
foods as compared with human milk is more likely to induce the modern
mother to suckle her child than volumes of abuse or sentimental twaddle.
Then as to the hygiene of pregnancy. Could our mothers have taught us
about the different food-values, about protein, nitrogenous foods,
calcium from the green foods for teeth and bones, avoidance of too
many albuminous foods? Knowledge of what diet can do to help us in
pregnancy and our children in early youth is in its infancy, but it
is there, none the less. Shall we fling it aside and return to pure
instinct? What massage and remedial exercises have taught can be
applied to our bodies during pregnancy and after childbirth. It is
probable that closer study of the functions of the muscles of the back
and the abdomen would enable us to teach women to exercise and control
them in a way that would make childbirth almost painless, and the
recovery of poise and activity afterwards more rapid and more thorough.
Under present conditions, muscles that are often too rigid or too
feeble expand and never recover their tone; others――the back muscles,
it may be――go out of use temporarily and similarly do not recover.
In the middle-class woman laziness is often the cause of difficult
confinements and poor recovery of the figure; in the working mother a
too speedy return to work which is too hard and does not exercise the
body harmoniously; in both the ignorance which leads to wrong kinds
of nourishment during pregnancy, and fear of doing harm to the child
which leads to rigid and over-careful movement, are responsible for a
good many troubles. Psychological effects may be serious. Most women
develop during pregnancy sensitiveness and a timidity protective to the
child. From this the very fertile mother has no opportunity to recover.
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