Feminism in the mother has led us far from maternity. That is what
it is bound to do. The working mother to-day looks straight from her
kitchen, if she is lucky enough to have one, on to one of the most
complex situations in history. And the intelligent ones are not blind
to the situation. That is why I suggested that, though middle-class
feminism has conquered the professions, the feminism of working mothers
might bring a new and powerful contribution to our work.
The life of the working woman who intends maternity is becoming
well-nigh impossible, and she knows it. When she has found a husband
the community denies them a decent house. Possibly they find one room
or two at an exorbitant rent, with no water and a grate unsuited for
cooking. There are no restaurants at which the pair can afford to feed.
Therefore they exist on partially or casually-cooked food, innutritious
bread, and food from tins. Things may not be so bad if the wife can go
on with work at a mill and get food that is fairly good at the canteen,
her wages helping the meals taken at home.
The coming of a baby too often means a search for another lodging. The
Bishops and the Generals like babies, but landladies don’t. Another
room is found, perhaps. The mother works till the last moment, has a
difficult confinement and inadequate attention, and gets up too soon.
It is not easier for her than for a delicately-nurtured woman, and it
is not less painful. Probably it is worse, because the working mother
has from birth been underfed and has weaknesses and deformities――a
contracted pelvis, perhaps――that a woman well-fed and cared for
escapes. Then it goes on, baby after baby up to ten and eleven,[11]
always in one room and no more money coming in. The mother works
whenever she can to help keep the family. Frequently she is cursed or
beaten by her husband for her fertility. Should the husband die, she
must work continually and harder or send her children to the workhouse.
In the opinion of the Bishops, she deserves the “stigma of the Poor
Law,” and, in the opinion of all right-thinking people, anything done
for her by individuals or the State is in the nature of a charity.
[11] A woman of 45 years of age gave birth recently at Queen
Charlotte’s Hospital, Paddington, to her 23rd child. Ten
children is not uncommon.
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