What then must feminist mothers demand? The right first of all to the
recognition of their work――the most dangerous of all trades and the
most neglected and despised. They should ask for endowment from the
community. This is opposed by many on the ground that fathers delight
to support their children, and it is they who should claim from the
community an adequate family-wage. But, after all, it is the mother
who bears and tends the child, and, although many women receive the
whole of their husbands’ wages, others must fight a humiliating battle
against drink and tobacco for the wherewithal to build their children’s
bodies. This struggle is exemplified on a large scale in the spending
of State revenue, most of which goes on armaments and the forces of
destruction, and an infinitesimal portion to aid and support life. If
Jason cannot give up his murderous playthings, let him have neither
sons to destroy nor daughters to drag through misery. His children
shall never be conceived. I have indicated that this is happening
already, not as a deliberate revolt, but as a counsel of despair in a
world which offers no hope, no joy, and no opportunity to the young.
The mother has a right to demand two years’ rest between pregnancies;
and the right to decide the number of her children. For some the call
of motherhood is insistent and its charm grows with experience; they
would be good mothers and might well have large families. They could
help others by superintending nursery-schools in which children from
one to five years might have their important meal of the day. But it is
imperative that the woman who has children should not be shut out from
public life. The ideal would be for a woman to continue her education
at least till eighteen, have the first child at twenty-four, then
perhaps three others at two-year intervals. This assumes that large
numbers of women do not choose to breed. At thirty-five every mother
of four children would, in a community of good schools, convenient
houses, and well-run restaurants, be free again to take part in public
life. It does not follow that she would be separated from her children;
they would go to day-schools. But the mother would do the work for
which she was best fitted in school,[14] kitchen, hospital, shop,
mill, or Parliament. In this way her opinion would count, and her
attitude to life help to permeate the community, which is otherwise
left to be guided by the outlook of the single woman and the male.
Problems of unemployment and competition due to married women’s work
are really questions of population pressure, muddled thinking, and bad
organization. To discuss all this in close detail is hardly within the
scope of this book.
[14] I am strongly of opinion that experience of maternity, even
more than of marriage alone, would help the teacher. Some
women, even teachers, are bored by children until they have
one of their own, whereupon all children of all ages become
interesting.
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