.......“On the other hand think of the discouragements. While
the mother toils in a restricted anxious home amid her
children, she sees through her imperfectly cleaned window (one
can’t do everything) the childless wives having a glorious
time, going a-bicycling with their husbands, dressed gaudily
with all his superfluous income, talking about their ‘Rights.’
As her children grow up to an age when they might help drudge
with her or drudge for her, the State, without a word of thanks
to her, takes them away to teach them and make good citizens of
them. If the husband presently becomes bored by his restricted
prolific household and its incessant demands, and absconds, or
if he is simply unlucky and gets out of work, the State deals
with her in a spirit of austere ingratitude. She is subjected
to ‘charity’ and every conceivable indignity; she undergoes
profounder humiliations than fall to the lot of the most
dissolute women. If a husband ‘goes wrong’ and a woman has kept
childless, she can get employment, she can shift for herself
and be well quit of him, but a family disaster for a mother is
catastrophe.
“I submit the situation is preposterous. I do not believe that
with increasing intelligence and refinement women will go on
marrying and bearing children under such conditions. I gather
that the statistics of marriage-rates and birth-rates bear me
out in this.”
And in the _Daily Chronicle_ the Rev. Cartmel-Robinson:--
......“This phenomenon of the falling birth-rate is of course
not confined to England; it is to be met with, you might say
generally, in all Christian countries. It would be far more
marked but for the tremendous decline in the death-rate,
especially among infants. We ourselves should be vitally
bankrupt but for this factor, and in France, as you know, the
population is slowly dropping. That is an old story, but it is
startling to learn, as President Roosevelt tells us, that the
native-born American population is actually declining.
“One of the main causes, no doubt, is the determined pursuit of
pleasure by all classes. The man will not take the burden of
providing for a family, or, at any rate, a large family, upon
himself, because that would mean a curtailment of his luxuries,
perhaps even his necessities, while the woman refuses to spend
all the prime of her life in child-bearing and child-rearing.
She also wants to enjoy herself, and the pure, simple joys of
maternity, which we used to think ought to be sufficient for a
woman, have in many cases become irksome.
“For my part I do not think that you will ever rouse England to
this question of home and children by an appeal to patriotism.
The Englishman has become too cosmopolitan for that, and I am
afraid the feeling is growing.
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