It is gravely necessary to realize how difficult the priest’s task is,
but at the same time it is extraordinary how little organized
condemnation of the evil exists. No one can accurately measure or
gauge the influence exercised by clergy in private conversations and
admonitions, and this is doubtless considerable. But it is sporadic
and not systematic, there is too much timidity and hesitation, and
while the enemy is well organized and equipped we are without a plan
of campaign and have no regular army in the field.
The Prayer-book, in the Marriage Service, tells us explicitly, “First
it was ordained for the procreation of children, to be brought up in
the fear and nurture of the Lord, and to the praise of His Holy Name.”
Here we have the voice of the Church speaking plainly enough, and both
it and the authority of Scripture are unanimous in clear expression or
unmistakable implication. The Christian attitude has been admirably
summed up in Father Black’s pamphlet, to which I acknowledged my
indebtedness in the preface of my book _First it was Ordained_, and
from which strong, lucid, and outspoken statement I quote a few
sentences:--
“Of this systematic wickedness, unfaithfulness is the natural
consequence in many cases. Logically there is nothing but a
sense of commercial honesty to keep a woman who has lost the
reverence of marriage to one man. The obligation has no hold on
her higher nature, and when passion or convenience press the
balance there is no sufficient reason why she should be very
scrupulous.
“If women treat themselves, and are treated by their husbands
as mere animals, all idea of chivalry is at an end; and this,
no doubt, is in a measure the ground for a license of speech
and action in even our public amusements, contrary not only to
the _ethos_ of Christianity, but to the principles of a
civilization worthy of the name.
“Women who interfere with the natural end of marriage--the
bearing of children--are wives in name, in reality prostitutes.
Men who require or encourage such acts are corrupters, not
husbands. When I said in my sermon that trifling with God’s
laws of marriage was a horrible sin, I was thinking chiefly of
the woman’s side of the matter.
“True manliness is, however, no less to be desired than true
womanliness. In the words of Lord Tennyson--
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