Fortunately, dinner is not all quail-pie. But even in the case of some more amenable dish, the first-comer is in a position of great responsibility. Casting a hasty eye round the company, he has to count the number of diners, estimate the size of the dish, divide the one by the other, and take a helping of the appropriate size, knowing that the fashion which he inaugurates will be faithfully followed. How much less exacting is the position of the more lowly-placed man; my own, for instance, on ordinary occasions. There may be two quails and an egg-cup left when the footman reaches me, or even only the egg-cup, but at least I have nobody but myself to consider. But let us get away from food for the body, and consider food for the mind. I refer to that intellectual conversation which it is the business of the guests at a dinner-party to contribute. Not "What shall we eat?" but "What shall be talk about?" is the question which is really disturbing us as we tug definitely at our necktie and give a last look at ourselves in the glass before following the servant upstairs. "Will you take in Miss Montmorency?" says our hostess. We bow to Miss Montmorency hopefully. "Er--jolly day it's been, hasn't it?" No, really, we can't say anything about the weather. We must be original. "Er--have you been to any theatres lately?" No, no, everybody says that. Well, then, what can we say? Let us try again. "How do you do. Er--I see by the paper this evening that the Bolsheviks have captured Omsk." "Captured Whatsk?" "Omsk." Or was it Tomsk? Fortunately it does not matter, for Miss Montmorency is not the least interested. "Oh!" she says. I hate people who say "Oh!" It means that you have to begin all over again. "I've been playing golfsk--I mean golf--this afternoon," we try. "Do you play at all?" "No." Then it is no good telling her what our handicap is. "No doubt your prefer tennis," we hazard. "Oh no." "I mean bridge." "I don't play any game," she answers. Then the sooner she goes away and talks to somebody else the better. "Ah, I expect you're more interested in the theatre?" "I hardly ever go to the theatre." "Well, of course, a good book by the fireside--" "I never read," she says. Dash the woman, what does she do? But before we can ask her, she lets us into the great secret. "I like talking," she says. Good Heavens! What else have we been trying to do all this time? However, it is only the very young girl at her first dinner-party whom it is difficult to entertain. At her second dinner-party, and thereafter, she knows the whole art of being amusing. All she has to do is to listen; all we men have to do is to tell her about ourselves. Indeed, sometimes I think that it is just as well to begin at once. Let us be quite frank about it, and get to work as soon as we are introduced.