Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
But this lack of genuine beauty in women lays on them no practical
disadvantage in the primary business of their sex, for its effects are
more than overborne by the emotional suggestibility, the herculean
capacity for illusion, the almost total absence of critical sense of
men. Men do not demand genuine beauty, even in the most modest doses;
they are quite content with the mere appearance of beauty. That is to
say, they show no talent whatever for differentiating between the
artificial and the real. A film of face powder, skilfully applied, is
as satisfying to them as an epidermis of damask. The hair of a dead
Chinaman, artfully dressed and dyed, gives them as much delight as the
authentic tresses of Venus. A false hip intrigues them as effectively
as the soundest one of living fascia. A pretty frock fetches them quite
as surely and securely as lovely legs, shoulders, hands or eyes. In
brief, they estimate women, and hence acquire their wives, by reckoning
up purely superficial aspects, which is just as intelligent as
estimating an egg by purely superficial aspects. They never go behind
the returns; it never occurs to them to analyze the impressions they
receive. The result is that many a man, deceived by such paltry
sophistications, never really sees his wife—that if, as God is supposed
to see her, and as the embalmer will see her—until they have been
married for years. All the tricks may be infantile and obvious, but in
the face of so naive a spectator the temptation to continue practising
them is irresistible. A trained nurse tells me that even when
undergoing the extreme discomforts of parturition the great majority of
women continue to modify their complexions with pulverized talcs, and
to give thought to the arrangement of their hair. Such transparent
devices, to be sure, reduce the psychologist to a sour sort of mirth,
and yet it must be plain that they suffice to entrap and make fools of
men, even the most discreet. I know of no man, indeed, who is wholly
resistant to female beauty, and I know of no man, even among those
engaged professionally by aesthetic problems, who habitually and
automatically distinguishes the genuine, from the imitation. He may do
it now and then; he may even preen himself upon his unusual
discrimination; but given the right woman and the right stage setting,
and he will be deceived almost as readily as a yokel fresh from the
cabbage-field.
10. The Process of Delusion
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