Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
Thus, on humane grounds, a conspiracy of silence surrounds the delusion
of female beauty, and so its victim is permitted to get quite as much
delight out of it as if it were sound. The baits he swallows most are
not edible and nourishing baits, but simply bright and gaudy ones. He
succumbs to a pair of well-managed eyes, a graceful twist of the body,
a synthetic complexion or a skilful display of ankles without giving
the slightest thought to the fact that a whole woman is there, and that
within the cranial cavity of the woman lies a brain, and that the
idiosyncrasies of that brain are of vastly more importance than all
imaginable physical stigmata combined. Those idiosyncrasies may make
for amicable relations in the complex and difficult bondage called
marriage; they may, on the contrary, make for joustings of a downright
impossible character. But not many men, laced in the emotional maze
preceding, are capable of any very clear examination of such facts. The
truth is that they dodge the facts, even when they are favourable, and
lay all stress upon the surrounding and concealing superficialities.
The average stupid and sentimental man, if he has a noticeably sensible
wife, is almost apologetic about it. The ideal of his sex is always a
pretty wife, and the vanity and coquetry that so often go with
prettiness are erected into charms. In other words, men play the love
game so unintelligently that they often esteem a woman in proportion as
she seems to disdain and make a mock of her intelligence. Women seldom,
if ever, make that blunder. What they commonly value in a man is not
mere showiness, whether physical or spiritual, but that compound of
small capacities which makes up masculine efficiency and passes for
masculine intelligence. This intelligence, at its highest, has a human
value substantially equal to that of their own. In a man’s world it at
least gets its definite rewards; it guarantees security, position, a
livelihood; it is a commodity that is merchantable. Women thus accord
it a certain respect, and esteem it in their husbands, and so seek it
out.
11. Biological Considerations
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