Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
Their error, as I say, lies in overestimating the courage and
enterprise of man. They themselves, barring mere physical valour, a
quality in which the average man is far exceeded by the average jackal
or wolf, have more of both. If the consequences, to a man, of the
slightest descent from virginity were one-tenth as swift and barbarous
as the consequences to a young girl in like case, it would take a
division of infantry to dredge up a single male flouter of that lex
talionis in the whole western world. As things stand today, even with
the odds so greatly in his favour, the average male hesitates and is
thus not lost. Turn to the statistics of the vice crusaders if you
doubt it. They show that the weekly receipts of female recruits upon
the wharves of sin are always more than the demand; that more young
women enter upon the vermilion career than can make respectable livings
at it; that the pressure of the temptation they hold out is the chief
factor in corrupting our undergraduates. What was the first act of the
American Army when it began summoning its young clerks and college boys
and plough hands to conscription camps? Its first act was to mark off a
so-called moral zone around each camp, and to secure it with trenches
and machine guns, and to put a lot of volunteer termagants to
patrolling it, that the assembled jeunesse might be protected in their
rectitude from the immoral advances of the adjacent milkmaids and poor
working girls.
37. Women as Martyrs
I have given three reasons for the prosperity of the notion that man is
a natural polygamist, bent eternally upon fresh dives into Lake of
Brimstone No. 7. To these another should be added: the thirst for
martyrdom which shows itself in so many women, particularly under the
higher forms of civilization. This unhealthy appetite, in fact, may be
described as one of civilization’s diseases; it is almost unheard of in
more primitive societies. The savage woman, unprotected by her rude
culture and forced to heavy and incessant labour, has retained her
physical strength and with it her honesty and self-respect. The
civilized woman, gradually degenerated by a greater ease, and helped
down that hill by the pretensions of civilized man, has turned her
infirmity into a virtue, and so affects a feebleness that is actually
far beyond the reality. It is by this route that she can most
effectively disarm masculine distrust, and get what she wants. Man is
flattered by any acknowledgment, however insincere, of his superior
strength and capacity. He likes to be leaned upon, appealed to,
followed docilely. And this tribute to his might caresses him on the
psychic plane as well as on the plane of the obviously physical. He not
only enjoys helping a woman over a gutter; he also enjoys helping her
dry her tears. The result is the vast pretence that characterizes the
relations of the sexes under civilization—the double pretence of man’s
cunning and autonomy and of woman’s dependence and deference. Man is
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