Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
More than once, indeed, I have gone to the funeral of an acquaintance
who died suddenly, and observed a curious glitter in the eyes of the
inconsolable widow.
Even in this age of emancipation, normal women have few serious
transactions in life save with their husbands and potential husbands;
the business of marriage is their dominant concern from adolescence to
senility. When they step outside their habitual circle they show the
same alert and eager wariness that they exhibit within it. A man who
has dealings with them must keep his wits about him, and even when he
is most cautious he is often flabbergasted by their sudden and
unconscionable forays. Whenever woman goes into trade she quickly gets
a reputation as a sharp trader. Every little town in America has its
Hetty Green, each sweating blood from turnips, each the terror of all
the male usurers of the neighbourhood. The man who tackles such an
amazon of barter takes his fortune into his hands; he has little more
chance of success against the feminine technique in business than he
has against the feminine technique in marriage. In both arenas the
advantage of women lies in their freedom from sentimentality. In
business they address themselves wholly to their own profit, and give
no thought whatever to the hopes, aspirations and amour propre of their
antagonists. And in the duel of sex they fence, not to make points, but
to disable and disarm. A man, when he succeeds in throwing off a woman
who has attempted to marry him, always carries away a maudlin sympathy
for her in her defeat and dismay. But no one ever heard of a woman who
pitied the poor fellow whose honest passion she had found it expedient
to spurn. On the contrary, women take delight in such clownish agonies,
and exhibit them proudly, and boast about them to other women.
V. The New Age
42. The Transvaluation of Values
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