Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
The gradual emancipation of women that has been going on for the last
century has still a long way to proceed before they are wholly
delivered from their traditional burdens and so stand clear of the
oppressions of men. But already, it must be plain, they have made
enormous progress—perhaps more than they made in the ten thousand years
preceding. The rise of the industrial system, which has borne so
harshly upon the race in general, has brought them certain unmistakable
benefits. Their economic dependence, though still sufficient to make
marriage highly attractive to them, is nevertheless so far broken down
that large classes of women are now almost free agents, and quite
independent of the favour of men. Most of these women, responding to
ideas that are still powerful, are yet intrigued, of course, by
marriage, and prefer it to the autonomy that is coming in, but the fact
remains that they now have a free choice in the matter, and that dire
necessity no longer controls them. After all, they needn’t marry if
they don’t want to; it is possible to get their bread by their own
labour in the workshops of the world. Their grandmothers were in a far
more difficult position. Failing marriage, they not only suffered a
cruel ignominy, but in many cases faced the menace of actual
starvation. There was simply no respectable place in the economy of
those times for the free woman. She either had to enter a nunnery or
accept a disdainful patronage that was as galling as charity.
Nothing could be plainer than the effect that the increasing economic
security of women is having upon their whole habit of life and mind.
The diminishing marriage rate and the even more rapidly diminishing
birth rates show which way the wind is blowing. It is common for male
statisticians, with characteristic imbecility, to ascribe the fall in
the marriage rate to a growing disinclination on the male side. This
growing disinclination is actually on the female side. Even though no
considerable body of women has yet reached the definite doctrine that
marriage is less desirable than freedom, it must be plain that large
numbers of them now approach the business with far greater
fastidiousness than their grandmothers or even their mothers exhibited.
They are harder to please, and hence pleased less often. The woman of a
century ago could imagine nothing more favourable to her than marriage;
even marriage with a fifth rate man was better than no marriage at all.
This notion is gradually feeling the opposition of a contrary notion.
Women in general may still prefer marriage to work, but there is an
increasing minority which begins to realize that work may offer the
greater contentment, particularly if it be mellowed by a certain amount
of philandering.
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