Women -- Canada; Women -- Conduct of life; Women -- History; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
Just above the coffin hung an enlarged picture of "Jane" in her wedding
dress, and it was a bright face that looked out at the world from the
heavy gold frame, a sweet girlish face, which seemed to ask a question
with its eager eyes. And there below, in the black draped coffin, was
the answer--the same face, only a few years older, but tired, so
inexpressibly tired, cold and silent; its light gone out--the power
gone off. Jane had been given her answer. And upstairs Jane's baby
cried its bitter, insistent cry.
Just then the minister began to read the words of the funeral service:
"Inasmuch as it hath _pleased_ the Lord...."
This happened in the fall of the year, and the next spring, just before
the busy time came on, the bereaved husband dried his eyes, painted his
buggy, and went out and married one of the neighbor's daughters, a good
strong one--and so his house is still running on woman-power.
If men had to bear the pain and weariness of child-bearing, in addition
to the unending labors of housework and caring for children, for one
year, at the end of that time there would be a perfect system of
cooperation and labor-saving devices in operation, for men have not the
genius for martyrdom that women have; and they know the value of
cooperative labor. No man tries to do everything the way women do. No
man aspires to making his own clothes, cleaning his own office,
pressing his own suits, or even cleaning his own shoes. All these
things he is quite willing to let people do for him, while he goes
ahead and does his own work. Man's work is systematized well and
leaves a man free to work in his own way. His days are not broken up
by details.
On the other hand the home is the most haphazard institution we have.
Everything is done there. (I am speaking now of the homes in the
country.) In each of the homes there is a little bit of washing done,
a little dressmaking, a little butter-making, a little baking, a little
ironing going on, and it is all by hand-power, which is the most
expensive power known. It is also being done largely by amateurs, and
that adds to the amount of labor expended. Women have worked away at
these endless tasks for generations, lovingly, unselfishly, doing their
level best to do everything, with no thought of themselves at all.
When things get too many for them, and the burdens overpower them, they
die quietly, and some other woman, young, strong and fresh, takes their
place, and the modest white slab in the graveyard says, "Thy will be
done," and everybody is apparently satisfied. The Lord is blamed for
the whole thing.
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