“Damon and Phintias, initiates in the Pythagorean mysteries,
contracted so faithful a friendship towards each other, that
when Dionysius of Syracuse intended to execute one of them, and
he had obtained permission from the tyrant to return home and
arrange his affairs before his death, the other did not hesitate
to give himself up as a pledge of his friend’s return[3]. He
whose neck had been in danger was now free; and he who might have
lived in safety was now in danger of death. So everybody, and
especially Dionysius, were wondering what would be the upshot
of this novel and dubious affair. At last, when the day fixed
was close at hand, and he had not returned, everyone condemned
the one who stood security, for his stupidity and rashness. But
he insisted that he had nothing to fear in the matter of his
friend’s constancy. And indeed at the same moment and the hour
fixed by Dionysius, he who had received leave, returned. The
tyrant, admiring the courage of both, remitted the sentence which
had so tried their loyalty, and asked them besides to receive
him in the bonds of their friendship, saying that he would make
his third place in their affection agreeable by his utmost
goodwill and effort. Such indeed are the powers of friendship:
to breed contempt of death, to overcome the sweet desire of
life, to humanise cruelty, to turn hate into love, to compensate
punishment by largess; to which powers almost as much veneration
is due as to the cult of the immortal gods. For if with these
rests the public safety, on those does private happiness depend;
and as the temples are the sacred domiciles of these, so of those
are the loyal hearts of men as it were the shrines consecrated
by some holy spirit.” _Valerius Maximus_, bk. iv. ch. 7. _De
Amicitiæ Vinculo_.
II.
_The Place of Friendship in Greek Life & Thought_
_The Place of Friendship in Greek Life & Thought_
The extent to which the idea of friendship (in a quite romantic sense)
penetrated the Greek mind is a thing very difficult for us to realise;
and some modern critics entirely miss this point. They laud the Greek
culture to the skies, extolling the warlike bravery of the people, their
enthusiastic political and social sentiment, their wonderful artistic
sense, and so forth; and at the same time speak of the stress they laid
on friendship as a little peculiarity of no particular importance—not
seeing that the latter was the chief source of their bravery and
independence, one of the main motives of their art, and so far an organic
part of their whole polity that it is difficult to imagine the one
without the other. The Greeks themselves never made this mistake; and
their literature abounds with references to the romantic attachment as
the great inspiration of political and individual life. Plato, himself,
may almost be said to have founded his philosophy on this sentiment.
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