“The Balonda have a most remarkable custom of cementing
friendship. When two men agree to be special friends they go
through a singular ceremony. The men sit opposite each other
holding hands, and by the side of each is a vessel of beer.
Slight cuts are then made on the clasped hands, on the pit of the
stomach, on the right cheek, and on the forehead. The point of a
grass-blade is pressed against each of these cuts, so as to take
up a little of the blood, and each man washes the grass-blade
in his own beer vessel. The vessels are then exchanged and the
contents drunk, so that each imbibes the blood of the other.
The two are thenceforth considered as blood-relations, and are
bound to assist each other in every possible manner. While the
beer is being drunk, the friends of each of the men beat on the
ground with clubs, and bawl out certain sentences as ratification
of the treaty. It is thought correct for all the friends of
each party to the contract to drink a little of the beer. The
ceremony is called ‘Kasendi.’ After it has been completed, gifts
are exchanged, and both parties always give their most precious
possessions.” _Natural History of Man. Rev. J. G. Wood. Vol:
Africa_, p. 419.
[Sidenote: _Exchange of Names_]
Among the Manganjas and other tribes of the Zambesi region, Livingstone
found the custom of changing names prevalent.
“Sininyane (a headman) had exchanged names with a Zulu at
Shupanga, and on being called the next morning made no answer;
to a second and third summons he paid no attention; but at
length one of his men replied, ‘He is not Sininyane now, he is
Moshoshoma;’ and to this name he answered promptly. The custom of
exchanging names with men of other tribes is not uncommon; and
the exchangers regard themselves as close comrades, owing special
duties to each other ever after. Should one by chance visit his
comrade’s town, he expects to receive food, lodging, and other
friendly offices from him.” _Narrative of an Expedition to the
Zambesi. By David and Charles Livingstone. Murray_, 1865, p. 148.
[Sidenote: _David and Jonathan_]
In the story of David and Jonathan, which follows, we have an example,
from much the same stage of primitive tribal life, of a compact between
two friends—one the son of the chief, the other a shepherd youth—only in
this case, in the song of David (“I am distressed for thee, my brother
Jonathan, thy love to me was wonderful”) we are fortunate in having the
inner feeling preserved for us. It should be noted that Jonathan gives to
David his “most precious possessions.”
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