“I never yet cast a true affection on a woman; but I have loved
my friend as I do virtue, my soul, my God.... I love my friend
before myself, and yet methinks I do not love him enough: some
few months hence my multiplied affection will make me believe I
have not loved him at all. When I am from him, I am dead till I
be with him; when I am with him, I am not satisfied, but would
be still nearer him.... This noble affection falls not on vulgar
and common constitutions, but on such as are marked for virtue:
he that can love his friend with this noble ardour, will in a
competent degree affect all.” _Sir Thomas Browne_, _Religio
Medici_, 1642.
[Sidenote: _William Penn_]
William Penn (b. 1644) the founder of Pennsylvania, and of Philadelphia,
“The city of brotherly love” was a great believer in friendship. He says
in his _Fruits of Solitude_:—
“A true friend unbosoms freely, advises justly, assists readily,
adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and
continues a friend unchangeably.... In short, choose a friend as
thou dost a wife, till death separate you.... Death cannot kill
what never dies. Nor can spirits ever be divided that love and
live in the same Divine Principle; the Root and Record of their
friendship.... This is the comfort of friends, that though they
may be said to die, yet their friendship and society are, in the
best sense, ever present, because immortal.”
[Sidenote: _William of Orange_]
It may be worth while here to insert two passages from Macaulay’s History
of England. The first deals with the remarkable intimacy between the
Young Prince William of Orange and “a gentleman of his household” named
Bentinck. William’s escape from a malignant attack of small-pox
“was attributed partly to his own singular equanimity, and partly
to the intrepid and indefatigable, friendship of Bentinck. From
the hands of Bentinck alone William took food and medicine—by
Bentinck alone William was lifted from his bed and laid down
in it. ‘Whether Bentinck slept or not while I was ill,’ said
William to Temple with great tenderness, ‘I know not. But this I
know, that through sixteen days and nights, I never once called
for anything but that Bentinck was instantly at my side.’ Before
the faithful servant had entirely performed his task, he had
himself caught the contagion.” (But he recovered.) _History of
England_, ch. vii.
[Sidenote: _Princess Anne and Lady Churchill_]
The second passage describes the devotion of the Princess Anne (daughter
of James II. and afterwards Queen Anne) to Lady Churchill—a devotion
which had considerable influence on the political situation.
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