Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
I shall try, I have stated, while speaking cogently, to keep my
language within the bounds of the strictest decorum. Treating of
similar topics with Michelet and Jean Jacques Rousseau, I would
fain, while discussing the sphere, the charms, and the complaints of
woman, the force and the claims of the passion of love, whether pure
or illicit, and the unalloyed, unredeemable evils of purely selfish
gratification, escape all semblance alike of approving sensuality
and of condemning a rational yielding to natural laws—which last, as
I shall be found to define it, must be considered a far different
thing from the lustful appetite of a satyr or the nightly phantom of
the ascetic, who is such from cowardice alone. Composed as we are,
in this fleshly tabernacle, of many a member, and many an adaptation
of these to use, combined as one, there is the old, old combat
described by St. Paul,—our instincts warring with our better selves,
our will and our reason, for mastery. To govern a slave, and govern
him well, one need not crucify him. To govern one’s self, it may be
necessary severely to discipline, but not always to kill, the body
in which we have been placed for so many useful ends. To use, as not
abusing ourselves or others, is but collateral to the rule called
“golden”—together they form for us the safest of creeds.
All men, old or young, seek companionship. This is necessary for
their very self-possession, both in body and in mind; and the
companionship which they instinctively seek, as truly and as
unvaryingly as the loadstar seeks its pole, is that of the opposite
sex. Where this special yearning is absent or has never existed,
there is to be found, always, the effect of disappointment or of
disease. The disease, if such is present, may, it is true, have been
self-occasioned, but the vessel itself was either improperly built
for the voyage of life or was stopped in its course by some hidden
shoal: it has foundered or been wrecked, and we shall find that in
by far the majority of cases this was from neglect in obtaining the
necessary sailing charts or from non-adjustment of the compass.
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