Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
Science
Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
The dangers environing those accustomed to consort with harlots
exist to almost the same degree where a single private mistress
is employed. To say nothing of the expense of supporting such,
usually much greater than that of honestly building a family, there
must always exist the fact that the woman who permits one man to
unlawfully use her will be very likely to grant similar favors to
his friend or any one else who may please her fancy or offer her
her price; and then comes the chance of her receiving and imparting
disease.
Many men think that all such risk is avoided in the case of
deliberate seduction. Such, however, is by no means always the case.
The popular spread of physiological knowledge has been productive of
many unforeseen results. Many women, as well as many men, imagine
that by the observance of certain precautions they can do as they
please with a friend without possible chance of discovery; the result
of all which is, that, in many instances of intercourse with supposed
virgins, the biter is sorely bitten, and repents him at his leisure.
Where true seduction is effected, not only is the offender oppressed
by a life-long sense of the wrong he has done, but he must also feel
that the prize thus unfairly gained is liable at any moment to slip
from his grasp, or to prove to him the veriest apple of Sodom.
Thus disappointed, or thus fearing, many, even of adult age,
resort to what is physiologically a worse crime against
nature—self-excitation. This yielded to in boyhood sometimes makes of
the young man a woman pursuer, but probably more often a woman hater;
while, on the other hand, it is often the last and final resort of
the old and broken-down debauchee. In either event the effect upon
the constitution is detrimental in the extreme. It is customary, but
still a grave error, to preserve silence upon this subject. “But,”
to apply to it the brave words of my friend Dr. Shrady, of New
York, when discussing prostitution, “notwithstanding our prejudices
of education, agitation will here, as in the kindred question of
pre-natal infanticide, finally culminate in reform.”[25] If the
subject is decided, as I believe will be the case, to be of the
importance that is claimed by every philosophical physician who has
looked into the matter, a voice will go out into every corner of the
land, caught up and re-echoed by all the medical men thereof, that
will cause those who care either for their souls or their bodies, to
pause and tremble.
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